My boyfriend thinks I am too quiet and is always telling me to talk when we're out This makes me feel crappy about myself I have always been quiet but shoul i confront him or leave it alone?

Answer 1

I think you should confront him, in a nice, polite way. You shouldn't have to change who you are for anybody. my opinion is that you dont confront him. being quiet is a good thing-instead, consider it a compliment. if he says it to you in a mean way, forget about him-dump him! if he does it in only a sort of mean way, just be like"well, at least im not loud and annoying like you." you can do this in a non-joking way, or just act like your joking in a flirty way. ps: hector ojeda is a little bitch!

Answer 2

It's important to communicate with your partner about how his comments make you feel, as open and honest communication is key in any relationship. Try to have a calm and understanding conversation with him about your introversion and how it is a natural part of who you are. If he is unwilling to accept and respect your quiet nature, it may be worth considering if this is the right relationship for you.