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My daughter is abusing me I don't want to spank her but nothing works what should I do?
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∙ 12y ago
You don't say how old she is but you have to stop it or she will rule the house by the teens. Spanking don't lead anywhere except to more spanking which means it doesn't work. Doing the same to her that she is doing to you wont help. The main problem is usually that the parent have a problem sticking with the punishment and new rules. If you take away things she likes, ban her from going certain places, see certain people etc she will notice the effect. But it has to be RIGHT when she does it so she has no chance of doing it again and don't give it back until you said you would. In the beginning she might find herself sitting in her room with no toys, phone, books, computer or anything left because you took it away for a week but she will remember what that was like and learn. If she's a younger child sending her to a boring corner of the house works as well. Just stick to your guns and don't give in. It takes a long time to change a behavior and her treating you like this is not acceptable.
Sounds like you are emotionally unstable to discipline. But if nothing works..you may need too. It wont make her hate you. Hate does not last forever.
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