My abusive ex-boyfriend hasn't contacted me for two weeks. Is it safe to assume it is over?

Answer 1

Assuming is dangerous business. Predicting the future is a difficult thing, and predicting wrong about this can be dangerous. Time will tell, but proceed with caution.

As a girl who was with an abuser for 2.5 years, I attempted to break up with him 3 times, each time he stalked me until I was broken down, he would show up at the grocery store, at the 7-11, the bank, my house, my work, the fourth and final time (1 year and 2 months ago) time I had to move three cities away in order to be sure he wouldn't stalk me, and that's because he didn't have a car, but he called my house every day, several times a day for three months. My point is this, always assume he could show up, because this type of personality is obsessive and they don't like the word no and he may simply be waiting for your guard to be down, the best thing to do is obtain a restraining order and if it is possible, move to a city at least 30 miles away.

Answer 2

I hope so but dont leave yourself in a false sense of security, be careful.

Answer 3

Yes