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To stay in a relationship with her you have to understand that her trust in you has been altered (possibly permanently). But if she is willing to work on trusting you again, find out what she needs from you to regain trust. Decide if it's realistic and reasonable, something you can and actually want to do. Don't lie and don't cheat; back up your words with your actions. Don't seek out or hang out with this friend of hers either. Your girlfriend has to be willing to act the same; your cheating doesn't give her carte blanche to manipulate or lie to you.

However, you can prove your honesty to her until you're blue in the face; if she can't let go of the past and keeps throwing this issue in your face (especially during arguments) it's probably time for you to move on. Seems like you were suckered into this test by your girlfriend and her friend as a test of your loyalty and trustworthiness and you swallowed hook, line and sinker. My advice is to accept the loss and walk away, you will never know when you will be set up again by this girlfriend. Let this be a lesson: If you really love and want to be faithful to someone, never put yourself in an incriminating position - not even if you think it may be a joke.

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Q: My girlfriend's friend added me to msn to flirt and i played along cause i knew it was a joke but it was a test and my gf cant trust me anymore how do i regain her trust this happened 9 months ago?
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