My husband has a problem with staring at young girls He always denies this but recently I found a scope the size of a pen that views 35 miles. We rent at the seashore for the summer. How do I stop?

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If he has a scope that views 35 miles there seems to be a much more serious problem than just staring. He is stalking. He may even be into child porn on the internet. Check the history of his website usage to verify that by clicking on the dropdown of the address window of the computer once logged on. If an open discussion doesn't solve the problem, maybe counseling and therapy may help. OR, you can spice things up in the marriage by entertaining the "schoolgirl syndrome" by dressing up in short skirts, pigtails and long socks to turn him on yourself. It's clearly time to deter him from that generation. GOOD LUCK! __________________________________________________________________ When I took my teenage girls to Rome, Italy for a vacation, they had a lot of fun staring at the Italian young men with their slick attire and chique tight pants. Yes, I must admit it now, I laughed with them and shared their exitement. There is something about admiring a good looking body that can not be defined as lecherous. May I suggest to you that your husband's staring at young girls - of course you can not be certain of that - is nothing beyond the ordinary. I know that we are all getting older and loose some of our attractiveness. But a little bit of voyerism shouldn't threaten you if you are secure in your relationship. Check out my recommendations and website on my Bio Page for more information. _____________________________ I just wanted to second that. Don't be offended by the looking. I catch myself doing it all t he time yet I can tell you first hand that 1: I love my wife and my family and would never do anything to hurt them. 2: I think my wife is incredibly sexy. I always notice a nice sports car when it drives by, an incredible house, or a great photograph of the New York skyline. Human bodies are no different. Just because you look at something and enjoy the looking doesn't mean you actually want it in your life.