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This is very common. It depends on why she is scared her parents won't accept. Is it because of race, religion, age difference. Or maybe too young to be in love? Or just doesn't feel comfortable. It's a good idea to tell maybe her mom that she's dating someone and she wants to make a commitment and he loves her back. Being scared is not going to help. You need to tell if this is something you want despite any fear.
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AnswerA custody ruling is handed down by the courts and is legal. Your ex has broken the law! If you are working or married to someone else and all is well between you and your new husband, then you have a good chance gaining full custody of your son/daughter in a court of law. However, think of your son/daughter and not the bitter battle between your ex and yourself. Your son/daughter loves you both. A compromise must be considered for your son's/daughter's sake.There are reasons a mother may not have the rights to custody (not accusing you here at all.):Partying too muchDoing drugs or drinking too muchShe doesn't live in a stable environment to bring a child up inBrings too many men home after meeting them in various placesIs married to an abusive manShe travels in her job too muchThe above are very good reasons why a mother would not have custody rights.It's time to report the broken custody to police and then it's on record. See what they say and if nothing is done, then it's time to see a lawyer.Good luckMarcy