My wife just went on our dream vacation to Greece and Europe without me Does this mean she doesn't care about our relationship as much as I do or am I am reading into it too much?

Answer 1

If she went without you knowing what the trip meant to you, then you probably have to have a serious conversation about your relationship. At the very least it sounds like a very selfish thing to do and at worst she is trying to make a statement to you.

Answer 2

To start, yes she should have waited for you, but get your view of this from the rest of your relationship. It does not necessarily mean she does not care about the relationship as much as you, she could have just go so hyped on this and took off without you, in a selfish decision, or something. What I would want to know is is she like this in all the small ways? Is she selfish, is she honest, is she patient, is she loving. There is also the key of communication, talk talk talk, tell her how it feels, your concern that you care more about the relationship. Pre plan it, don't be angry, but sincere and loving. (oh ya, FORGIVE her, unconditionally) Ask her why she did it, does she see it as not being wrong? ect. Overall, she could be a loving wife who made a dumb decision, or she needs to reevaluate her prorities