I'd suggest a lot of soft greys with hints of greens and or purples. The grey will create a subtly dramatic effect, and I say subtly dramatic because it depends on how you'd like to apply it. The green will accent your red dress and purple goes well with hazel eyes.
brown and gold shadows with bright lips, or nude.
a nice smokey grey
Black or brown
I think the best look to go for when wearing a grey dress is smokey eyes, nude lips and big full, dark eye lashes.
Brown.
According to The Fine Young Gentleman website, one should only wear brown dress shoes for business dress suits. On The Shoe Snob blog, the site recommends wearing brown dress shoes with any type of navy suit.
the bangs an the medium brown or whatever colour hair she has.
Topaz/Brown jewellery and brown framed glasses.
yellow
Green Yellow Peach
You shouldn't.
no that may look to harsh i would go with a brown smokey eye sexy but not harsh