Scared to love

Answer 1

Some one once told me, that you have to choose what you win or loose. They said 'you cant have everything' and told me not to love in vain, because love doesnt set you free. If you dont take chances you never have to loose...

Do you know what that taught me? To live in fear. I lived my life for two years like that and all it brought me was the pain I was trying to prevent. You can stand on the sidelines and watch your life pass you by, so safe, but feeling more lonely than ever before...

But one day you have to get up and realize, so what if it hurts me? So what if I break down? In life there's so many turns you can't see, but all we want is to be happy. I had to realize that I dont care about all the pain in front of me, because I just want to be happy. Dont let fear stop you from living. Look hun, pain is a part of life. The key is to understand and learn from your mistakes. So that at the end of the day you're not lonely; you've just made it easier to be happy in the furture.

Answer 2

Love is an amazing thing, its definetly very powerful! You're saying your scared to fall in love, but you might actually mean you're scared of what will HAPPEN when you fall in love. There are ways to tell that you're in love- you think about this person alot, talk about them alot, and admire them both physically and as a friend. You have no reason to be scared of this, but you might not be ready for this kind of commitment quite yet. If you know that's not the reason, you have to ask yourself what is. Love is a beautiful thing but it's not for everyone. Good luck!