It has been my experience that most men like to be in control of a relationship. They tend to feel threatened or pressured when the woman tries to take charge. Most men who are ready for a serious relationship will have no problem making their intentions clear. If your man isn't droping some serious hints, then it is quite likely that he is not ready for that level of commitment yet. Besides, it is often better to wait until he is ready to commit, because if he's pressured into half-hearted promises, there will be many hurt feelings later. And, sometimes the pressure can make a relationship that could have possibly grown into something greater with time, wither and die because it was handled hastily. If you are unwilling to be patient and wait for the man to "come around", and he seems unwilling to commit anytime in the near future, then the relationship is probably doomed anyway.
just ask him straight up before he gets in a relationship
Only when you're comfortable in the relationship with her. If you're able to ask her how many guys she's been with, you're able to ask her about sex. This isn't a question you ask on a first date. Or even a second, or third date. This is a question you ask only when you're in an intimate relationship. If her answer to this question can be a potential dealbreaker for your relationship, then don't even ask.
Men ask if you love them because they want your relationship to be more serious. If they don't ask it doesnt mean they don't like you it either means they are scared to ask you or they are not ready for that kind of relationship.
If you are serious about him, ideally, he should be just as serious about you! Before you call him up and demand that he dump her, one question you might ask yourself: if he acknowledges to you that he is in a relationship, are you prepared for him to begin a relationship with you, but possibly, become secretly "distracted" by someone else?
You should first get a divorce.
If you two are in a relationship & she's comfortable with it, sure, go ahead & ask.
The only person that knows the answer to your question is the guy. It is best to ask him what he means by "serious relationship". When you understand what he means and what his intentions are towards you, then you can decide if you want a "serious relationship" with him.
You should respect the bro code and find someone else. If not talk to your best friend and explain to them that you like [girl's name] and ask him if he is serious about his relationship with her, if he is find someone else. If he's not then ask him if you can date her.
I would say after about 1 or 2 months after you have been dating. Just to see how serious the guy/girl is about the relationship.
If you have the guts to ask him pesonaly, you just tell him how do you feel and then tell him, that`s what you want in your relationship.
Just because a woman has been married twice before does not mean it was her fault; she could simply have poor taste in men. If you are both serious then you should ask her about both of her former marriages one quiet evening. Generally women are pretty outspoken and she will fill you in on some details. Then you will have to be the judge as to whether you want to continue your relationship with her. A good relationship starts out with good communication skills and honesty.Or you could just ask why she can't keep a man, that always works for me...I've got a way with words you see, you can't keep 'em off me;o)
Are you serious. Other than the obvious, if you must know ask her, or him.