If you are serious about him, ideally, he should be just as serious about you! Before you call him up and demand that he dump her, one question you might ask yourself: if he acknowledges to you that he is in a relationship, are you prepared for him to begin a relationship with you, but possibly, become secretly "distracted" by someone else?
Of course. For instance, if you are in a relationship and your man/girl has an affair but doesn't love the person he had an affair and only did it because he/she was bored. You would think he/she doesn't deserve you but what if the man?woman have an affair and the one he/she had an affair with is the one he/she truly loves. How would you feel?Whatever answer you have it's the answer to the question.
He probably still loves his wife. the fact that he has had a relationship with another woman does not mean he does not love his wife and family. That is a idea implanted in our society by religion.
* Unless you have proof she had or is having an affair or she is disappearing during the evening or on weekends and is not that attentive towards you then she may well be telling the truth. If you are not the jealous type or tend to be paranoid about who your girlfriend is with or if she's really out with her girlfriends and you still have this gut instinct then it's wise for you to walk away from the relationship if you are going to continue to question her actions.
A full relationship is trust,and having all your needs met...Never feeling insecure about how much he or she loves you....
Stop having sex and see what is left of the relationship....
Yes. Or she is very manipulative and he is stupid.
This is always an incredibly difficult thing to figure out. You will know if she loves you because all she wants to do is be with you and spend time with you and never let go of you. You will know if she just loves having a boyfriend if she only wants to be with you when she's bored, only wants to be with you when you're around others to show you off, and if she just got out of a relationship right before you started dating. Keep a close look out for these signs.
A full relationship is trust,and having all your needs met...Never feeling insecure about how much he or she loves you....
You should ask him why he won't leave her. If it's for the sake of his children then I'd respect that answer or is it because he loves this some else too. Either way it's time for you to move on and find someone who loves you and wants to be with you. ANSWER: First of all this man that you love is married and have two kids. Even his having an affair with you and told says he loves you but his wife didn't know about it, what makes you think that he will leave his wife and kids if his life is comfortable having his family and mistress. Did he ever told you that he is tired of his wife and kids that is why his having relationship with you. Married men who's having an affair and the wives didn't know about it, no way that they will leave their safety at home. But if the affair is been discovered, what do you think might happen, move out and run to you? Gosh no because his life will be in so much mess that everything he built and own will be gone. If I were you, I will not believe to everything his telling you. Unless he show you his divorce papers and give you a ring asking to marry you, the chance that you have with him will be very slim.
Look you shouldn't take him back at all.
if you truly believe it will last and are sure he is the one it wll work out
Having a long term relationship is very important for people. It can give a person a lot of self-confidence knowing that they have one person that loves you unconditionally.