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Uhm, no they basically lose all trust for their husbands. If the Husband didn't want to lose their wife they never should have had an affair in the first place. Juss sayingANSWER:I don't know about others, but for some wives, including myself you will never forget your husband's affair, especially if your husband fell in love with the woman he was having the affair with. If you ask man some will say it doesn't bothers them, some will say they can handle it as long as the wife will not do it again. But in a real world, a lot of women will not forget the affair, even they forgiven their husband. Also it will depend on how bad the situation is..
My long time partner, heterosexual, of 27 years has been having a 5 year affair with a co-worker whose husband is HVC positive from kidney dialysis. He does not know if the girlfriend has been tested or if she is intimate with her husband or others. We have been intimate since I did not have knowledge of the affair until two months ago. The affair is on going. Should he be tested for the virus?
Look you shouldn't take him back at all.
My long time partner, heterosexual, of 27 years has been having a 5 year affair with a co-worker whose husband is HVC positive from kidney dialysis. He does not know if the girlfriend has been tested or if she is intimate with her husband or others. We have been intimate since I did not have knowledge of the affair until two months ago. The affair is on going. Should he be tested for the virus?
No. I believe a one-night stand is something a couple can work out, but if it was a long time affair and a child came of it, then it would end in divorce.
Moral arguments about cheating aside, a person should break off a long distance affair with a married man. If he is unfaithful with his wife, he probably won't be faithful to you, especially long distance.
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Defensive mechanism in her body..Telling her to forget him, so she can move on.
Yep. He apparently really wanted her.
Yes. You will always wonder. The level of trust in the marriage has been broken and no matter how long you are married you will still wonder.
Personally, i would take him back. Listen to his reasons, but if you do not think they are good enough, don't go anywhere near him. He may still have real feelings for you, don't let them go to waste. ANSWER: I think this is up to you, if you can leave with it. How did your husband had this long affair without you knowing it or did you knew it all along. I don't know the whole situation of your marriage but you must really love your husband so it's okay for him to have a second life. There's some women that can not accept the affair of their husband, including me, but yours is been 4 years now and it sound like you and your husband are still together. Can you live your life knowing that your sharing your husband with the other woman? I can't but it did happened, and my husband ex mistress was happy to tell me that we are sharing one man. What about precaution when it comes to intimacy, does your husband protect himself so he wouldn't transfer some sexual disease to you. You need to really think about this, if you don't your husband will take advantage of you. And if his affair is been 4 years now, can you really believe him that he still love you completely.
Sit down and have a long talk with him. Get him to swear loyalty to you. Or get a counselor. I don't think having a proven cheater swear loyalty to you is worth much. Counselling for sure, and go slowly. That trust must be earned back over time.