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Should you hunt down the woman that had an affair your husband?
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∙ 11y ago
- No, it is a waste of energy for you to hunt down the woman that had an affair with your husband. You are going after the wrong person! Your husband is an adult and he was At Fault and he could have formed the word 'no' to any affair, yet he persisted and it is your husband that you should be communicating too and perhaps marriage counselling to help you with tools to better your marriage if you want to save it.
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If a woman is always praising you to your wife and tells her husband that she wishes he was more like you does she have a interest in you Also when ever you look at her she looks down real quick?
She definitely does. Be careful around this woman unless you want to end up in an affair. Also, talk to her husband and see what he thinks about it.
Your husbands friend told you about your husbands affair but now he is attracted to you should you tell your husband?
You already know two wrongs don't make a right so the best thing to do is let your husband know about his affair and that his friend told you and is now interested in you. Be careful of gossip! Communication is the best skill anyone can have so sit down and calmly discuss this with your husband. It is also up to you to make it plain to your husband's so-called friend that you are not interested in him and stay clear of him. This is no friend of your husbands because he is hoping to have an affair with you behind your husband's back.
How can I explain my affair to my husband and that there was no intimacy?
You will have to think very clearly about telling your husband about having an emotional affair. Most men do not believe a woman can have an emotional affair and not have a sexual relationship. There is a high possibility that your husband may not believe that when you had an affair there was no sex involved although this is highly possible, but not in his mind. What you can do is learn good communication skills and you must have had your reasons (that clouded your judgment) to have an affair and you need to deal with these problems. Take time to think why you felt the need to have an emotional affair in the first place and then sit down with your husband and express why you are unhappy in the marriage and perhaps seek Marriage Counseling or the two of you could make a better effort with each other to make your marriage a more solid one. Once you have broken that bond of trust with your spouse it is difficult to gain their trust back.
What about the woman in the emotional affair with a married man?
You should think of it this way....How would you feel if your husband was having an "emotional affair" with someone...? Let the man dig his own hole, but dont be the one that helps him...He got married for a reason, so atleast let him get divorced before you start anything with him... Oh and what makes you think that a year down the road, he wont be having an "emotional affair" with someone else....if you do it once, 9 times out of ten you will do it again....hope this helped you out in some kind of way
How can you trust your husband who had an affair and fell in love with his affair partner?
You cannot trust your husband as he is in it for sex and you are enabling his behavior. He is like a Tom cat doing as he wants while hurting you deeply and also using the woman for his own enjoyment. You are enabling his behavior and need to sit him down and talk things out. Make sure he understands you are not putting up with his affairs.
What should a wife do if she catches her husband cheating on her.?
Answer If he hasn't cheated before then it's time to sit down and communicate because something is lacking in your marriage or, perhaps your husband is simply trying to recoup their youth by having an affair with a younger woman. If he hasn't cheated before this then try to work things out and if you don't think you can handle that route then separate for a few months to see what happens and if you don't think you can reconcile then file for divorce.
Should you leave your husband of 30 years after his affair?
If your husband has never had an affair before this then no, you should not leave him. Some men 40 plus go through 'Andropause' (some men different than others) which is similar to women's menopause. The man can be moody; depressed and feels old and would like to reach back into his past to see if he is still attractive to the opposite sex and all the while they are unaware of what an affair will do their wife if she should find out. Although cheating is never right 'to err is human.' If you and your husband can sit down and communicate to improve your marriage or see a marriage counselor that is better than ending 30 years of marriage. There are many people who have gone through what you are going through and their marriage has become stronger.
What do you do if you and your husband run into the other woman?
If the affair is over and done with, and you and your husband have worked things out, then you just walk right on by, and don't even acknowledge her. Don't get into an argument or a fight with her, as this will not only bring you down to a lower level, but may also put your husband in the position of feeling he should defend the other woman. Yes, there are some husbands who would feel sorry for the ex mistress being 'attacked', and feel sorry for her. Do not put your husband in that position. Your anger would be completely understandable, but he made a mistake, but it's over now, and you and he have moved on. So just keep moving forward, not backward. Also, not defending the other woman sleeping with a married man, but HE is the one who took the vow to honor, love and be loyal to you. If you're still with him, then I assume that means you forgave him. If you can forgive him, you need to try to forgive her, too. It won't be easy, it will actually be one of the hardest things you've ever done. But I promise you that it will make all the difference in the world for you, and will help you in ways you can't even begin to imagine. Holding a grudge is like drinking poison and hoping the other person will die. Although, if the affair is still going on, and if it were me, I wouldn't have had the problem of my husband and me running into the other woman, because I would not have been there with him if I knew he was actively involved in an affair.
Would you be upset if you were in a restaurant and your husband asked what the waitresses name was?
== == == == == == == == I guess it just comes down to, if you trust your husband enough to let him flirt with other woman..
Anyone remember the name of the TV program/film where a woman stood in front of another woman who was sitting down whilst in the gym changing rooms, she then dropped her towel showing everything! I'm sure that woman then went on to get murdered in it?
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Can he only love one woman even he is having an affair?
Men can love more than one woman. He may feel his needs are not met with his wife so he seeks solace with another woman who fills those needs. He may love other things about his wife, but it always comes down to a sexual relationship so if there is a problem in the marriage it is simpler for the man to have an affair and get the best of both although that is not generally how it ends up. People who are married took a vow and they should take them seriously. All problems in a marriage should be worked on together and having an affair complicates things more than mending the marriage.
Why is your husband delaying the truth about his affair?
ANSWER:I'm not really sure, but I have some idea of why. Could it be that he is waiting to make sure that he will not loose both his wife and his mistress? It could me his waiting for you to calm down and he knew the hurt he gave you from his affair? there are lots of reason why he is waiting..
