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Yes, it is called a stipend or stole fee. You should call the office and ask what the customary donation is. Please note that it is not required, and if you cannot afford it, you give what you can, or be more generous if you can afford that. Priests depend on their stole fees to help others.

The church will require a payment for the wedding - that goes to the parish and not to the priest. In our parish, if the priest has given you exceptional service and worked well with you, it is customary to give him a personal payment, either cash, check,or gift card to a restaurant, etc. I think ont the order 0f $25 to $100 is appropriate. In my experience, I usually get nothing 2 times out of 3, and neither do I ask for anything. 1 time out of 3 I will get $50. It is up to you

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