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You should stop doing date-like activities with the ex-boyfriend, but keep the friendship. If you have a common volunteer activity, church or such, invite the current boyfriend along. One boyfriend I had made me stop seeing my past male friends, which for some of the guys was a good thing. Turned out they were still hoping for a relationship with me, and it was better to be clear that I had moved on. A couple of the guys stayed friends, since they were part of groups I belonged to. However, I did not keep that boyfriend, since it eventually was a large red flag of insecurity for him--of any male friends or acquaintances. You'll have to figure out which way it is with the current guy(s) to see if they can co-exist. My current guy accepts the others without question because he knows who I am with.

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Q: Should you stop going out with an ex boyfriend with whom you've been friends for years if this upsets and causes insecurity to your current boyfriend?
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