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I'm not advocating dishonesty, but I believe that some things are better kept unsaid, especially if the cheating is over and you've resolved to never do it again and if telling him would hurt him tremendously, which it undoubtedly would. If you feel the need to confess, find someone else to unload the burden, perhaps a preacher, counselor or trustworthy friend. But if certain circumstances have occurred (such as a pregnancy by the other man), then it's probably necessary to tell your husband. In such a situation, allowing him to believe that the baby is your husband's is unfair to him and to the baby's father who has a legal and moral right to be in the child's life (unless he's proven unfit).
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∙ 18y agoEverything screams out "no", but I've learned a long time ago that honesty is the best policy. Your husband isn't going to like it one bit, and of course, will be disappointed in you, but being honest should account for something. Along with your honesty you have to tell him why. If you don't tell him it's going to eat away at you and you sound like a good person that simply made a mistake. It's obvious you aren't getting out of your marriage what you need. You could be lonely, your husband doesn't spend much time with you or doesn't listen to you. If you have been married a few years he could even take you for granted. It's time you faced yourself and what is bothering you and it's your duty as his wife to sit down with him and communicate your feelings to him (then ask him about his feelings re your marriage) and try to patch things up. Good luck Marcy
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Should you tell your ex husband you slept with his brother-in-law?
Yes
Should you tell her you slept with her husband?
That also depends. If you really love the guy and you need him then u shouldn't but if you feel guilty do it.
Who do you believe if your husband confessed out of supposed guilt when you were dating that he slept with your best friend but she completely denied it?
You should believe your husband. No man would tell something that could destroy his relationship unless it was true.
What signs do you look for to tell if a man has slept with another man?
Although it is not 100% accurate, the best indicator that a man has slept with another man is when he says he has.
Should you tell your sister that your best friend slept with her husband?
I know there will be people who will tell you to mind your own business, but we're talking about family here, and in my opinion, family is always your business. I think you should tell your sister. Friends will come and go, but family is for life.
What is the percent of woman that would tell you that they cheated?
This will depends on individual. There are some women, mostly married when they slept with another man because their husband is to busy, no time and not paying attention to her, might not tell their husband because of how it makes them feel. There are some that will talk to their husband or maybe boyfriend what she did just to give them lessons for not making them feel special and love.
Should tell your friend Someone saw her husband kissing another woman?
it would be the honest thing to do
Should I tell the other womans husband she is cheating?
Definitely yes
Should you tell your husband?
Yes.
If you caught your husband cheating and spoke to the other woman should you believe everything she says?
There are always three sides to a story......his .....hers.... and the truth!! Answer No, not for one moment should you believe her. Do you really think she's going to tell you the truth while sleeping with your husband? I doubt she would be that honest or she wouldn't have slept with him in the first place.
If I have proof my husband has been cheating should I tell the woman's husband?
If you have absolute proof that your husband is cheating with this other woman then you should deal with your own problems with your husband first and yes, the other woman's husband should know. This is not an uncommon problem and most people (whether a husband cheats with another man's wife or a wife cheats with one of her friend's husbands) is very common and the victim of the cheating generally does tell the husband or wife that their spouse is cheating with their spouse.
Should you believe your husband of 10 months when he says he hasn't slept with a girl but traveled overseas to see her he works abroad 6 weeks at a time and met her there he didnt tell me i found out?
I DONT BELIEVE HE NEVER CHEAT
