You need to talk and decide what you both want and you don't know until you try. I was totally platonic bestfriends for 3yrs with my now husband of 4.5yrs - it is possible but it just depends on what you want - and were still the best of friends!!
just put yourself out there. be honest about how you feel. if you are really good friends, then even if he/she doesnt like you in that way, you should still be able to remain friends. And even if you do feel like you're gambling a relationship, you'll never forgive yourself if you don't speak up and suddenly he/she is dating someone else, when you know it should be you. trust me.
you guys should totally go out!!! if you guys are good friends then you would probably be and awesome couple too
Well it means that he does want to go out with you but he doesn't want the relationship to not work out and it ruin your good friendship.
You might not be able to tell, but if you ask him, you will know. Just be wary that it might ruin your relationship with your friend... Be careful!
Make promise: you will always be friends no matter what happens. Hope i helped =] -amyy amyy_loves_ya@yahoo.com
Chances are, if he's saying he "doesn't want to ruin our friendship", then he really isn't all that interested in becoming more than friends with you. People usually only say that when they simply don't want to be anything but friends.
Either he has a crush on you (likes you and wants to be your boyfriend in his head but in real life is scared or not ready for a relationship with you)and is very honest, Or he likes you as a friend and doesn't want not going out with you to ruin your relationship.
maybe he doesnt want to ruin the relationship between you two. it mgiht be weird to be more than friends. he is scared and nervous to make the first move
you should talk to him about it. say something like. "i want to take our relationship to the next step, but if things dont work out, i still want to be friends" good luck:)))
Yes that probably whats wrong! Most boys who are friends with girls, and like them are afraid of something like that. Give him some time.
if you like him then you would want to find out if he likes you too because you would not want to ruin the friendship or look like a dork in front of him so if you just want to tell him straight out go for it and if you wan to find out if he likes you get a good friend to do it and dont get bummed out if he doesnt there are lots of other guys out there that could be just right for you
Give up that boy! You do NOT let boys ruin a relationship with ya girl!
Try to be sensitive to her friends feelings. Ask the one you like out and just don't press if she says no, understand her friend might have told her it would ruin there relationship.
Don't go there! He is going out with your best friend. But then maybe you to belong together as you both are lying to her.