Theres this girl that i like There were rumors spread out about me liking her now she knows. She told my friend that i'm kind of a freak and now we are not talking I need to fix this please help?

Answer 1

Okay. So, it's probably pretty embarrassing to have the whole school know who you like but the first thing you have to do is get over that. Try and forget it happened and carry on as you usually would. If people keep asking you about it and you don't trust them just respond "Really? Who told you that?" Once they tell you who told them just nod and walk away. If they persist in following you, just ignore them. Now, for the really hard part. Girls say a lot of things they don't mean so don't be too offended by what the girl you liked said. Try approaching her to have a conversation like you normally would. Avoid talking about rumors or anything that might make you seem awkward. Talk about how annoying homework is if you can't find anything else. Repeat this for several days until you two are comfortable around each other again. When you feel ready and you think she's ready, ask her out. If she says no just say "Alright, that's fine," and drop it. Don't bring it up again and don't make it seem like it's a big deal. Overall, just be yourself. If she doesn't like you, that's her problem.