Virtual worlds for chating and dating?
IMVU would be a good bet if you're looking for cyber dating. There's also a bunch of horny 12 year old boys on Gaia. IMVU is a bit more mature though, and also has a setup that would better allow both an actual relationship and cybering. It's in 3-D so if your computer sucks it might run slow and laggy and you have to download it to chat in 3-D. You also have a profile that you can costumize quite a lot actually, and you can write messeges and whatknot.