A pack of condoms
Propose her. There's a reason she has stayed around.
The twentieth year of marriage is one of the big milestone anniversaries. As you celebrate this special 20th wedding anniversary, reflect on the commitment to a lifetime marriage the two of you have made. The traditional gift for your 20th wedding anniversary is china, the modern gift is platinum, the gemstone is an emerald and the flower is a day lily.
No he should give her a gift as well because an anniversary is only one day a year that is a special day!
46th Wedding anniversary has for symbol: POEM, traditional gift will be a poem from famous poet or by yourself, and 46th wedding anniversary gemstone is bloodstone. Otherwise traditional gifts from bedcloth - houseware and decoratives are fine.
You get the date you and your partner stated dating and the anniversary is the same date the next year.
There are lots of sites for 1st year anniversary gifts, such as Amazon, but if you would like a personalized gift, there are websites such as www.personalizationmall.com or, if you like the more traditional gift swww.gifts.com/anniversary/anniversary-gift-guide.html
Obvious, if you're both old enough. A trip to the justice of the peace.
Ivory
To every anniversary there is a specific traditional item that is given. Get a gift that goes with the special traditional item for that year. You can look on the internet to see what the special traditional items are.
Maybe a nice piece of jewery, like a necklace or earrings, but not too extravagent.
China is the traditional gift for the 20th anniversary.