Don't put your elbows on the table, put your knife and fork together beside each other on your plate when you are finished eating, don't slurp your food, eat slowly, don't hold your utensils like gardening tools, chew with your mouth shut, put your napkin on your lap, take bite size bites.
Also, if you have anything that must be cut with your knife, only cut one bite at a time. Do not engage in stomach turning conversations. Start a conversation about something other than the food in front of you; compliment the cook/hostess about her/his cooking; try not to eat all of anything before starting on another food on your plate.Do not reach for things on the table, but do ask it to be passed to you--even if it is just a weensy bit out of your reach. Do not salt the food before you taste it: the person who did make it might be offended--he/she cooked it to be tasty! Do not leave the table without asking to be excused---but, too, try not to be the last person sitting there. When you have finished, take your napkin, fold it, (no wadding it up) and place it on the table, next to your place setting. If you are female, try to slip your lipstick OFF before the meal: nothing is more icky than to have soiled the napkins with lipstick! If you need to tend to your allergy nose, excuse yourself, without mention of the reason, and sneak away. Same goes for bathroom needs. Smile.
Pseudo-Ovid. has written: 'Table manners for boys' -- subject(s): Etiquette for children and youth, Manuscripts, Facsimiles
No, hats of any kind are not appropriate attire INSIDE, and especially not at the dining table.
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i want this, i want that. get some manners.
Lucinda Holdforth has written: 'Why manners matter' -- subject(s): Social values, Etiquette, Manners and customs, Courtesy
Joannes Boemus has written: 'The manners, lavves and cvstomes of all nations' -- subject(s): Early works to 1800, Geography, Manners and customs 'The fardle of facions' -- subject(s): Accessible book, Early works to 1800, Geography, Manners and customs, Social life and customs 'Gli costvmi, le leggi, et l'usanze di tutte le genti' -- subject(s): Early works to 1800, Geography, Manners and customs 'Mores, leges, et ritus omnium gentium' -- subject(s): Early works to 1800, Geography, Manners and customs
No 1 tablespoon = 3 teaspoons 1 teaspoon = 0.33 tablespoon
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Table manners go back to the 1600's . In the Middle Ages people didn't use plates to eat off but thick slices of bread or a slab of wood that could be pretty gross with bits of food and maggots . These were called trenchers. The fork and spoon were invented in the Middle Ages and people often carried them with them to use. The Middle Age court meals were rather a crude event. Food was thrown on the floor to the dogs while people ate several courses and combined with the rushes, food, dogs, and other things on the floor it would be pretty stinky. The rushes were shoveled out about twice a year. The Elizabethan court began to introduce manners , but by Victoria they were in full use. The Victorian table was very strict and this included where people sat at the table. A stranger could come into a household and know the status of each person by where they were sitting at the table. Manners and the use of different utensils for the different courses was very strict.