You shouldn't have to handle them. The only contact you should have is for the childrens visitation, school and medical decisions. Bring someone with you as much as possible when you have to be around them, abusive people tend to back off when they have witnesses. Write down what they do that is abusive and go to the judge that handled the divorce and see what they think...Let the abuser know in no uncertain terms that you will not tolerate their ways anymore, scream it at the top of your lungs, with some supportive family and friends present. Give them a taste of their own medicine, see how they like it...
Yes. You have no control over who accompanies him to such events. If he is abusive toward you then discuss the situation with your attorney and take the matter to court if necessary.
if he is that abusive chances are he will but then only if you tolerate him.
Answer Leaving to gain control in an abusive relationship won't help you much. You will never gain control over a person who is mentally sick by leaving him or her. This person needs help and either you stand by them while they get professional help or you leave because you feel it's the thing to do. Don't leave for all the wrong reasons and later regret your move, if you have children and this person won't go for help, then leave as fast as you can because your children will eventually be affected by your choice to stay in an abusive relationship. Good luck
You get a divorce and leave the house, before it is to late !
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A man like this is an abusive, control freak and you should get rid of him!
yes Teens get wild because they choose to. Some children of overly-protective parents rebel and go against the way their parents raised them, but this doesn't mean all children of overly-protective rebel. Some children of overly-permissive parents rebel but they are usually testing their boundaries. "Getting wild" is a choice, usually from a lack of or a rejection of self-control.
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Generally a verbally abusive woman has control issues and she will carry them into most relationships. However, there are a few women that are verbally abusive to one or more men, but may meet a man that she is not verbally abusive to as they are better suited for each other.
I don't quite understand. To control when you have sex, you either need to be abusive or promiscuous which you should NOT be. To control how you have sex, you'll need to be aware of yourself and your partner.
you can try talking through it, does your gf kno you have these control issues? or you can try going to your gp.
Tell a teacher, counselor, anyone who will listen. When it comes to abusive relationships (family or lovers) you cant always do it on your own. Control, is probably the most important factor in abusive realationships, and there are many different ways to control a situation that doesnt have to be getting physical. There are people who can help you, dont be afraid to get the help you need.