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What can you do to calm yourself down and get over a girl you have loved your whole life and move on without causing her harm?
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∙ 12y ago
Time heals all things eventually. It is hard right now because the wound is fresh. One thing you can do to get your mind off of her is to get busy doing something. School, work, hobbies, travel, whatever you can do to keep busy.
AnswerEveryone at one time or another goes through hard seperations. The best thing for you to do is focus on yourself, and your current life. Try to spend more time on doing things you enjoy, and more time with your friends and family. Do you have anyone whom you confide in? Let them know how you are feeling and just vent. If your problems are severe enough that you feel you might harm her, please seek counseling immediately. They will teach you other ways to deal with your anger or hurt. All I can say is just give it time. So simple, but so true. TIME. AnswerI'm very sorry to hear this. I hope you are feeling better.I would suggest talking with a good friend you can trust. Also, if your emotions get to the point of overwhelming you, it's good to let it out. Another suggestion to handle strong emotions is to go for a walk (I don't suggest driving) or try to keep your mind busy, such as watching a television show or movie. However, if you are doing something active, I personally find it much more helpful.
As for the girl, just so that I understand, it sounds as if you are the one breaking it off and you don't want to do her any harm because you do care about her. I know how you feel and have been there before. Unfortunately, whenever a relationship ends, there is no way to avoid hurt feelings (often on both sides of the relationship, but obviously much stronger emotions for the one who is being broken up with), but don't make it worse by saying something you might regret or raising your voice if things get heated. When a relationship ends, it's like a death in the sense that you are no longer a part of each other's lives. The person who is being broken up with may have been caught off-guard, so - in addition, they grieve any thoughts, dreams and visions they had for the future.
IF you are the one who is getting broken up with (not the initiator), it's best to lean on good friends and family for support. Go to the friends you most trust. However, if you are in times of trouble, even those you may not trust so much will most likely understand your situation and be sympathetic and supportive.
Furthermore, I personally think it is best to cutoff contact for a while (several months). Trying to be friends or seeing each other just slows down the grieving process. This can be hard to do because you still may deeply care for the other person, but it is for the best. (Let them gain support from their family and friends).
I wish you all the best.
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