How to get guys to like you?

Answer 1

Whether you want someone tolike you romantically or in a friendship way, the steps are very similar. # Be happy with yourself and your life. No one enjoys being around someone who is miserable, so try to smile and look on the bright side of things. # Be as outgoing as you can, making conversation with others and keeping it light. Pick friends who are outgoing as well. # Don't change who you are or lose your own personality in order to be liked. Fake people never have friends (or lovers) for long. # Make sure you like this person for him or herself, and that when you are getting to know them, you are showing your true self as well. People can read the sincerity in others' eyes and body language. # Don't forget the golden rule: Treat others as you would like to be treated. If you are hoping for romance, don't come on too strong...you wouldn't like someone to do it to you. # Keep secrets they tell you and don't gossip with your other friends about them. People will trust you if you keep their secrets safe, and know that you aren't backstabbing them. # Join the same club as them, like the school paper, papercheerleading squad, soccer team, band, etc.

Answer 2

Well....It depends on what kind of guy he is. Here is what you do...

A hott jock- Ooo. This is a hard one. Well..Maybe if you were in the popular group since preK, most likely he would like you. So just act cool and stay beautiful.

A sweet guy- Just act yourself and try and be pretty and nice to the guy and you are good to go.

A wierdo that doesn't care about girls- If you like this iind of guy then...It's almost impossible for this guy to like you.

A nerd- Like what they like.

Hope this information was helpful!!!

I have experienced alot of guys so that's how I know everything.

Answer 3

well you cant really get a guy interested in you, if a guy likes you he likes you and he will show you that he likes you, if not he wont make an effort. believe me I've been there soo many times. he may seem interested in you if you change yourself for him but if you have to change yourself for him then hes not interested in the real you. just be yourself, hang out with him, treat him like a friend.

Answer 4

Okay, my method is that if you like a guy and you are shy you need to be his friend first. Once you get to that stage ask him if he considers you a friend and GET AN ANSWER!!! If he says yes then start being around him more and give him presents on his birthday, help him with things he doesn't know, and know what's happening around him. Throughout this process one of these things will happen. 1. You will meet someone else you like 2. You will find out you don't actually like him 3. He or his friends will ask you if you like him.

Good Luck!!!

JUST BE YOURSELF!!!!!! there is no actual way to get someone to like you!!!! Love the love guru!!!

Well i totally agree with this.

But I'm just gonna add, tell him that you like him, because guys generally get embarrassed more than us if you don't like him back! From there, you leave it to him...

love guru,

ask him out

DUH!!!

You could also ask your friends to "accidently" push you into him, then apologize, then that's your chance to talk to him. Maybe that could make you two closer friends, and who knows, maybe even ask you out?

Ok, your not going to get guys by looking for advice on wikianswers!!!!!

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umm well u know.. they always say.. be yourself and that right guy will com einto your life.. im only 14 and ive learned things.. ive never had a boyfriend or kissed a guy which is soo much better because i get to watch peoples dum relationships fall into the ground and watch the stupid things they do that cause them so i wont ever do that... im just saying that its more fun to have crush from 12-15 then "date" in middle school.. its all plain drama.. yea i admit i liked this one guy that knew i exsisted but ignored me.. it hurt pretty bad.. i just cant wait till highschool wen he regrets what he did and asks me out..haha and if ur reading this just remember life is delicate and no boy is going to make ur like easier.. <3

you said it!!! the answer above is really true! im 15 and a freshman in highschool and i honestly, i dont think i have time for a boyfriend! yea cliche right?? but if you find the right guy you should go for it! but make sure he's a good guy cause if you find the right guy a relationship can be awesome!! but if you dont its just a pain and it can really hurt you in the end. but yea be urself, bla bla bla (its true btw)! i wish there was a secret way to get guys to like you but honestly theres not. ;) good luck!

Answer 5

show your sense of humor,hang out with him and just be yourself if he likes you great your were meant to be if not hes not the one and that's fine if you are thinking of having kids wait about a year to see if your relation will work and if you are fighting alot that is not the guy to be with i know because my next door neighbour always picked the guys she would fight with because she likes that but that is not a relation ship so be yourself and try new things but not to soon get to know him and when you feel it is right you can do a lot together and you feel better doing personal stuff with him when you get to know who he is and you will feel alot better if you think this information did not help to bad so sad lol b cool not dumb but also b yourself!!

thx for lstening and reading this is how i foind my handsome husband!!

ok im a guy in highschool. ill tell you exactly what you have to do to get every guy you want. First lots of guys are shy or too afraid to talk to girls so you should talk to them. Dont worry what they think of you cause honestly they just are happy to talk to a girl and they will all like you. Second where shirts that show your boobs. This might seem like the usual "all guys want is sex" but seriously the first thing every guy looks at when they see a girl is their boobs and butt so yea that's it. good luck

Answer 6

You don't get a guy to like you. That happens on its own. But talk to him. "Charm the pants off him" Make him laugh, show him that you're avaliable.

Answer 7

talk with the boy you like about your life and ask him about his life and try to get to know each other very well and chat with each other and hang out

Answer 8

well you have to mabe send him stuff or just ask him out.....it depends on the guy =)