There is nothing explicit in text that Okonkwo says often about Ezinma.
Okonkwo does say twice throughout the book the idea that Ezinma should have been a boy, but whether this is said often is not is unknown.
Okonkwo often said that Ezinma was his favorite daughter and that she had the spirit of a boy. He admired her resilience and intelligence, and believed she would bring him great pride and honor in the future.
It isn't mentioned if Okonkwo says anything about his motherland Mbanta, but he considers them to be womanly because they do not prefer direct action against the Christians.
Okonkwo wishes that Ezinma was a boy because he sees her as having the spirit and strength that he values in masculinity. He believes that if she were a boy, she would have been the perfect heir to carry on his legacy and continue the family lineage.
Okonkwo treats Ezinma's illness very seriously. He takes his aid of Ezinma very seriously as well.
Ezinma was Nwoye's half sister. Both of them share the father of Okonkwo, but Ezinma's mother is Ekwefi; Nwoye's mother is Okonkwo's first wife.
Okonkwo regrets that Ezinma was born a girl.
Okonkwo tries to provide Ezinma with a good education and strong discipline to help her succeed in life. He also shows his care and protection for her by seeking out the medicine man, Chielo, when Ezinma falls sick, showing his dedication to keeping her safe and healthy.
*Okonkwo *Ezinma *Things Also, Chielo comes for Ezinma. Chielo is constantly being "possesed," and she says Agbala wants to see Ezinma.
Although not specifically mentioned, it can be guessed that Ekwefi is Okonkwo's favourite wife.Okonkwo originally wanted to take Ekwefi for his first wife, but he did not have enough money to pay for her dowry at the time.
Ezinma is the child who is most able to understand Okonkwo's view points and what he wishes for their family. She seems to share Okonkwo's desire for family honour and is willing to sacrifice for it as well.
Ekwefi gives Ezinma the meal of roasted plantains and palm-oil sauce, despite Okonkwo's warning that Ezinma should not eat too much of it. This delicacy is a symbol of Ekwefi's love for her daughter and her defiance of Okonkwo's strictness.
Ezinma returns to Okonkwo's compound with the help of her mother, Ekwefi, after she falls seriously ill. Ekwefi follows the Oracle's instructions for Ezinma's healing, which involve taking Ezinma to the shrine and administering special herbs. This treatment helps Ezinma recover and return home.
In Chinua Achebe's novel "Things Fall Apart," it is Okonkwo who follows Chielo and Ezinma during their journey to the Oracle. Okonkwo is Ezinma's father and he accompanies them to the shrine to ensure Ezinma's safety.
Okonkwo believes that Ezinma possesses traits associated with male strength and courage, such as perseverance and intelligence. He sees these qualities as more valuable and suited for success in the Ibo society he lives in, and therefore wishes Ezinma had been born a boy.