If you are insecure you have to find a way to deal with these issues and get by them or they could cause problems for you throughout your life. One thing that you could try is to just tell your boyfriend that you are feeling insecure. Some guys could take that... others might not react well. You know him, and how he will probably react. You could tell him that you get scared when he acts in a certain way... that might help him understand what he can do to avoid the reaction. You could also express that you are trying to trust him and act normally, but sometimes you get scared, and if he could help out a little bit by offering reassurance, that would help you get through it. Sorry wiki
You can tell your boyfriend how you're feeling and ask for his reassurance and support. Express your thoughts and concerns openly, and communicate the specifics of what is making you feel insecure. Encourage open dialogue and seek understanding from him.
Your boyfriend may feel jealous because he may see hugging as a display of intimacy, which could make him feel insecure about your relationship. It's important to communicate with him and understand each other's boundaries to address his feelings of jealousy.
The four types of attachment behavior are secure, insecure-avoidant, insecure-ambivalent, and disorganized. Secure attachment fosters healthy emotional and social development by providing a secure base for exploration. Insecure-avoidant attachment may lead to difficulties in forming close relationships, while insecure-ambivalent attachment can result in clingy and dependent behavior. Disorganized attachment may lead to emotional instability and difficulties in regulating emotions.
Insecure attachments can lead to difficulties in forming secure relationships, lower self-esteem, higher levels of anxiety and depression, and challenges in regulating emotions. These individuals may struggle with trust issues and have difficulties in managing conflict or stress in relationships. Therapy and support systems can help in addressing and improving insecure attachment styles.
Insecure means lacking confidence or assurance in oneself or one's abilities. It can also refer to feeling anxious or uncertain about something or someone.
I noticed some changes in his behavior and routine that seem suspicious. He is often distant, guards his phone more than usual, and seems to be making excuses for not being available. These signs have led me to believe that he may be involved with someone else.
is his kissing other girls or other guys?
no, Because your the boyfriend and he is an ex only.
he is feeling insecure and needs you to validate your feelings for him
if he loves her he would not care.
because you yourself are insecure
You can't. (but one poor soul wishes to disagree ... so:) You can, my boyfriend has a girlfriend who is obsessed with him! she would do and say anything to make me think he is cheating. some women are evil. they are insecure and jealous. you have to trust your man. my boyfriend shared intimate details with her; and she blurted it out in front of myself and his friends. she has proved she is crass and classless completely NOT what my boyfriend is attracted to.
You either have low self-esteem or he has cheated on you and you don't trust him.
Not really insecure but feel offended as that is rather rude. You should bring this up to him and make him realize what he said and that it was rather rude. No boyfriend should be telling you such a thing and I would even say that it warrants a break up because that is honestly rude. I would never ever see a reason where that would be warranted.
He may feel insecure, therefore he may feel by telling you lies, it makes him feel better about himself and alot more securer.
No. Everyone feels insecure at some point. Better to talk this over with your mom, a older sister, an grandma, or aunt. A another woman can help you work this out. Boyfriends don't understand this sort of thing. Of course, if you feel insecure about something he is doing (like touching you in places that you are not ready to be touched), you should tell him that you are not ready for that. It is perfectly okay to say you do not feel right about something like that.
Probably insecurity, or he is telling you that he chose you and only you out of those girls...
It means he's insecure.