How to make my wife happy?

Answer 1

Wow this will take some typing...

Women are all about emotions and feelings. If you know you want to get some tonight...don't come home and say "lets do it". call her or send her texts during the day to let her know you want it tonight. women need to be mentally prepared to get in the mood. tell her that you'll bring home dinner or take her out, make her work less for that day so she can concentrate on you. when you finally do hit the sack...LOTS OF FOREPLAY!!! Men only need 10 min before thought to ejaculation, women need a lot longer.

DON"T BE IN A HURRY! take your time and explore her body even if you know it by heart. women want to please men, if she tries to quicken the pace tell her that it's her turn to be spoiled tonight. Every place on a woman's body has the potential to be a target zone. ask her what she likes, and what she wants. eye contact is hot, and of course after talk and play get her undressed and go south. What most men don't understand about the vagina is that it's not an inside out penis. Most women get off on clitoral stimulation, not through penetration. Familiarize yourself with where the clitoris is, keeping in mind that it is a very very sensitive area! once you've found it explore what makes her explode. direct pressure on a clit is sometimes painful rather than pleasurable, in this case use one or two fingers to go on either side of the clit and make circular motions, up and down, or tell her to use your fingers like she uses her own. the palm of the hand can also be used until you know her body this well. these principles apply to oral sex as well. Another helpful tip is that a woman's uterus and breasts are connected! dont ignore one while playing with the other.

The elusive G-spot! OK, so after she's excited and well lubed have her lay on her back and use your middle finger to enter her. The g-spot is located about 2 knuckles into a womans vagina. after arousal the g-spot will swell making it easy to find, it is toward the belly side of the vaginal wall, it has a rough bumpy kind of feel. now after you've found it press up toward the sky, curl your finger around the pubic bone and massage that point. If you hit the spot you'll know it, she'll become more active. If this is the first time she's had g-spot stimulation it will take a while to climax, ask her what she wants, kisses, breasts, and eye contact all the way. you may need to stock up on the lube until she learns how to climax from g-spot. like i said many women won't let themselves climax from this because we get a strong urge to pee. Most women know to pee before sex so when she has this feeling tell her to release it, and go with it. but only tell her once don't pressure if she can't come this way. Women can't have any distractions when they are trying to orgasm and that includes the pressure to orgasm. Just go with it and if she likes the sensation of g-spot stimulation encourage her to masturbate using g-spot toys or her own fingers....this doesn't mean you're bad in bed! Women have masturbated for years with clitoral stimulation (we're just too embarassed to admit it) if she likes g-spot she needs to learn all over again which spots and what rhythm works for climax.

After you've learned with your fingers you can then proceed to penetration. Life will be grand. Just be patient with this though it will take a lot of time, but she'll appreciate you trying to make her happy and she'll love the fact that you want to make her happy.

Answer 2

Well that is more of a opinion then a answer. I think this man should just be there for her, make her feel safe and loved. Acknowledge her when she is talking. Help her overcome her illnesses/pains. You don't need to buy her flower or chocolates. Treat her they way you would like to be treated.

Answer 3

if you have to ask the question, i would say don't marry her.

Answer 4

the best thing which she can do , is to leave him alone

Answer 5

Attitude, personality, and hard work (as in get a good job).

Answer 6

never cheat on her ..