What do woman want to hear on a dating site profile you get lots looking but never hear from them after they read the profile?

Answer 1

Women want to read in a dating site profile that you are going to be a possible partner for her - so you have to construct it carefully to show that you offer what women want. What do they want? Here's a list of the strong attractors:

* Safety : You have to convince her you're not a pervert or have criminal intent, that you don't beat women, and that you don't play with her emotions. Dating sites attract a lot of weirdos and much of what women get as messages on such sites is offers for instant sex, kinky sex, threesome sex and every other kind of sex. Be different. Don't mention sex - let her be the first to mention it.

* Honesty : If you aren't immediately and openly honest, forget it. Be straight up and tell it like it is. If you convince the reader, you'll have lots of points. Honesty is very attractive.

* Excitement : Be excited about her, be exciting and interesting yourself. And yes, none of us are movie stars, but be interested in something, be passionate. Passion is a big attractor.

* Admiration : Let her know you like her, love her, think she's fantastic.

* Romance : Enjoy the feeling of being in love and do what comes naturally. Little attentions and special things. Just put in a bit of extra effort.

* Social compatibility : She needs to know that her friends and family will approve of you. Similar language, culture, skin colour, age, religion, marriage status, parenting status all help. No one compatibility is essential, but each match adds up.

* Wealth : Not lots of it, just something around the same level she's been used to. Being poorer than her won't do it for her.

* Power : If you are in control of something, you'll get women. Power really works. It works too well. You might get the wrong women for the wrong reasons - beware.

* Good genes : Look good and you're well on the way. Be an athlete and you're doing well. Women are programmed to avoid odd looking and physically less abled people. Yes, its tough if you're in that category, but its a discrimination you'll need to face. * Sensitivity : Most men battle to express emotions and convey them. Be kind to her, tell her your troubles, be vulnerable and love children and animals.

* Intelligence : Be much the same as her. If you want a PhD, you'll need to be a PhD to get off the starting blocks. Ok. The list helps, but its hard to write something that conveys all that.

Be brave, get help - get someone who can write to help you - a sister, cousin, friend.

Write a reasonably long story. Theres a lot to say. And try to say it in an interesting, gently amusing way.

You need 200 words or many more if you can manage it.

And get your spelling rite - you are selling yourself and demonstrating illiteracy isn't a good start.