if you are financially independent please leave him.no need to suffer more.
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Sweetie 20 years is long enough for you to be with this man. If he never care about his life and all he wants is mess up your life and the children, its time for you to let him go. Ask him to move out before your kids finds out what's going on with their father. Im not sure if you can but I will talk to a lawyer and see where I stand if I want this man out of my life. You don't deserve this heavy drama esp. the kids..
Some marriages work out when the ex husband marries his mistress, but often the marriage becomes weak because the ex husband does not have the staying power; maturity or desire to make a marriage work. If the marriage has problems in the years to come (and there will be problems) he may well cheat on the mistress he married just like he did with you. Move on in your own life and let your ex husband find out what he is made of.
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There's a lot of scenario that you need to look at. If your husband wasn't the one that broke the relationship with his mistress, then his feelings for her will hunt him for a while, knowing the years they spent together. You ask yourself why his mistress called you, after all this years, could it be that your husband promise her that he will divorce you or even move out so he can be with her. Maybe your husband is been promising his mistress from the start and never done anything about it, so she got fed up. Even if this is what's going on with them, I think you need to tell your husband to move out. Don't let him manipulate you by saying sorry or he didn't mean to do it. 5 years affair is five years and no one can justify what he did with you. Don't believe everything your husband and his mistress is telling you. This is not your problem but his, so it's time for you to kick him out so this issue will not be in your hand.
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He died in 1999, after 58 years of marriage
St. Rita's husband died about the year 1422 after 18 years of marriage.
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The man who made you pregnant.
Wait five years and find a husband.
how does a husband who claims he fell in love with his mistress end this affair i thought we've been happily married for twenty seven years
Queen Victoria lived with her husband for 21 years after their marriage in 1840. He died in 1861 of typhoid fever.