They are pushing your buttons! They are trying to control you. The best thing you can do is talk to a couple of your closest friends and explain the situation and ask where they stand on this. If they side with the bully then they aren't you're friends. Sometimes we have to stand up to people that bully us. If we show weakness then we become 'sitting ducks.' Let the bully know you aren't taking it and although it's not always necessary to get physical with them continue on with your friends. It's time to 'shake the old apple tree' and see what rotten apples fall to the ground. This means you need to find out who your true friends are and who your enemies are. YOU are in control of your own destiny.
a nerd or a very fat person my friends say that a bully told them
A victim of bullying really needs a good friend and the best way to let the victim know you want to be friends is to approach them when they are alone and set up a date to meet somewhere where you can talk and then start hanging out together. You will have to be ready to go through the full mile with this person as you could be also bullied by just being with this person. You can do it! The fact you want to be friends with a person being bullied means you are kind; concerned and a very strong person.
== Because they are afraid that if they hang around with the person that is getting bullied, they will be bullied too. That happened to my friends which is why I can't hang around them anymore. If those who are bullied had friends who were loyal to them by standing up for them, and by still being willing to "hang" around them, then maybe the bullies would be the ones with no friends, instead of the innocent victims being bullied, and then being abandoned by their friends. If you aren't willing to be loyal to your "friend" then you aren't a friend to begin with. You have to BE a friend to HAVE friends. Bullies are easily intimidated by a group, no matter how weak they may seem individually. Sticking together beats the bullies every time.
You beat the crap out of that person and put him in his place. Or hang around friends all the time so when he tries to bully you you have allies
Often, if you are bullied-verbally or physically-your friends don't want to get involved in case the bully turns on them. They are afraid and don't know what to make of the situation so they buzz off. It's the sad truth... A good friend would take the risk, and support or defend the person being bullied. Some friends are not such good ones.
It can lead up to a person being bullied commiting suicide
Answer I think it would be a situation where a person is bullied into doing something they do not want to do by friends or others of the same age group.
No; in fact, he was sometimes the bully, and was always the undisputed leader of his circle of friends. (Only Pete Shotton seemed able to put Lennon in his place, and get away with it.)
People get bullied because the bully is jealous of the person who they are bullying or they have mental problems...
the person thats bullied will get beat up and yelled at by the parent that he is bullying
because they look different then the person that bullied them
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