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Just say: "Thank you for that!" What a blessing that someone else in this busy world is taking the time to actually acknowledge you. When you are NOT being noticed, that's when you begin to get worried. Fundamentally, the name they are actually calling you, refers to themselves.... That they are seeing in you. Enjoy and value the attention they are giving you. Gratitude is the key to joy, peace and personal freedom.

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Threatening to beat someone if they don't do as they're told. Or telling on you if they know you already did something wrogn. If you fall for this, they'll hold it over you for as long as they can, and in the end,will tell on you anyway. Tell on yourself and save yourself the stress.

Also Negativeness not helping out. Positive peer pressure is like if a friend got an A in science you cheer them on or congratulate them. Negative peer pressure could be a friend telling you to stay out past your curfew and such

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yes a swirly can kill you because the flowing water can drown you

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There can be numerous names used by bullies to tease their victims. Most of these are standards: ugly, fat, anorexic, stupid, idiot, dumb, emo, etc. Whilst others can be created from a person's first name, middle name or surname. It can be created due to the spelling or the sound of the name. For example, a person's surname could be spelt "Maunsewer" yet a bully could deliberately decided to call them "Man-sewer". There can be name calling used among friends as a joke but they shouldn't be used to bully others.

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• The 'wedgie' has been in school for decades and is pulling the underwear of the victim up high making it extremely uncomfortable for the young man. It is a form of a prank and young men simply do it to others (generally the smaller or weaker students) as a prank. If you show no reaction as best you can they will eventually leave you alone and pick on someone else.

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teenage pregnancy,drugs,divorces in marriages leaving teenagers disturbed,dropping out of school, being bullied, trouble understanding schoolwork, high expectations by parents, too many places and things to do, concerns of keeping up with others

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First thing is to MAKE school officials aware of the problem. For instance, the school counselor, principle, any teachers. Also, parents needs to have the issue made known to them. Talk to anyone that will listen. Always involve a trusted adult. Discuss issues with a close friend. Make someone listen.

If the issue is being made aware to several trusted individuals, the more likely the problem is to be taken seriously, rather than a record of just 1 (one) account of the issue.

Second is talk to someone that is trustworthy. Express your feelings and struggles.

The worst thing to have happen is that the student didn't feel he/she had anyone to talk to or no one would listen, and the school leaders were never made aware of the problem, before its too late.

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It's better to stay away from them, don't talk or have contact with them because you won't know what they might do to you.

If they have hurt you, run faster than you, and/or do horrible things without a reason, you better stay with a friend that may protect you or talk and chat with a teacher, because bullies don't dare to attack someone stronger.

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Ask her why.

If you feel you can't approach her or fear rejection leave it.

Find someone who shares your interests.

Build on your own self esteem and confidence too.

Don't forget that there is someone out there willing to offer friendship.

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You don't :P

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If you like pain then yes it could feel good. Masochist.

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No any self respecting man does not like his underwear pulled up its uncomfortable except for queers

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• What would even be better than a movie (not one comes to mind) is getting the students involved in making their own movie on bullying. Each student can express how they feel as to how they are bullied and the more mature students can give pointers about what can be done about bullying. This means acting out scenes of pushing; shoving; physical harm; name calling and harassment or cyberbullying as well and impress that the rise of suicide is high regarding students who are victims of suicide and you could do research to find the names of some of those students to be shown at the end of the movie. By doing it this way it will be far more effective and while making the movie the students are learning why bullying is not permissible and that even though you may not be a bully you still see it and let it happen and thus, a student that does this is an enabler and almost as bad at the bully. More and more of the students that do not bully are trying to work with teachers; parents and having programs to protect victims of bullying. If one considers out of the whole school of students there may be only a dozen or two who are bullies so it stands to reason if the good students stand up for the rights of victims of bullying the bullies will eventually disappear. Laws also have to be changed to expel constant bullies.

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It first helps to anticipate the problem if you do it will help you to either avoid it or confront it. Think about how you'll feel later if you go along with the crowd. If you've already made up your mind not to do something than be firm and show your conviction. Stand up for what you believe in! There's nothing wrong with that!

Ignore them. If they confront you, walk away. If they attack, fight back. If even the teachers are against you, change schools.

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ignore him and keep smiling

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Many people bully but that's no the point people bully to usually get their anger out on others by being mean. Bullies usually become bullies because of what happens at home. To read more go to related links.

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I'd imagine it would have been some animal.

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Bullying is the result of childhood trauma, inflicted on an individual via physical or emotional abuse. This fundamentally alters how that individual relates and understands its surrounding environment, an environment which includes other people. Individuals which are abused at a young age become abusers when they pass through peuberty due to the brain assuming an understanding that abuse is normal and natural.

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Show her something really sweet your girlfriend has sent you or written to you.

Let her know that being obnoxious to you will only bounce back badly on her friend when she feels caught in the middle, if he/she really cares about your bird then she will grow up a little and realise this.

don't meekly take abuse!

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Be cause if you did , you're not going to have a voice . It's okay to know their opinions about the situation , what they think about it and what they think you should do . But you have to listen to your self too . You have to know what you want , need and what you feel about the decision you should make or the thing you need an advice with or any other matter . Listening to their opinions and thoughts can make you do the right decisions and do the right things . They can be very helpful . But be careful , they can make you do the wrong thing and put you in an ugly situation . If you need help , ask the right people like family and friends . Good friends of course . And it's always important what you think first . And of course , having good luck can be very handy .

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Do not keep your abuse a secret. Secrecy is the abuser's weapon.

If all else fails, the abuser recruits friends, colleagues, mates, family members, the authorities, institutions, neighbours, the media, teachers - in short, third parties - to do his bidding. He uses them to cajole, coerce, threaten, stalk, offer, retreat, tempt, convince, harass, communicate and otherwise manipulate his target. He controls these unaware instruments exactly as he plans to control his ultimate prey. He employs the same mechanisms and devices. And he dumps his props unceremoniously when the job is done.

Another form of control by proxy is to engineer situations in which abuse is inflicted upon another person. Such carefully crafted scenarios of embarrassment and humiliation provoke social sanctions (condemnation, opprobrium, or even physical punishment) against the victim. Society, or a social group become the instruments of the abuser.

Often the abuser's proxies are unaware of their role. Expose him. Inform them. Demonstrate to them how they are being abused, misused, and plain used by the abuser.

Trap your abuser. Treat him as he treats you. Involve others. Bring it into the open. Nothing like sunshine to disinfest abuse.

Based on my book "Malignant Self Love - Narcissism Revisited"

� 2003 Lidija Rangelovska Narcissus Publications

I'm glad to know I did something right. I secretly married a guy who who made me promise to keep our marriage a secret because his daughter had emotional problems and said she could not cope with it. But when he ended up in the hospital for 4 days and didn't call me, I told her about our marriage and guess what? She was happy about it! So I couldn't figure out why he still wanted to keep us a secret. I found out he was supposedly seeing someone else and so I decided to put our wedding anniversary on cable TV! The worst part is that he told me he was only married once before us, but I found six of his divorces at the county courthouse! Once I exposed him, he immediately wanted a divorce. After I worshipped the ground he walked on for an entire year, he just threw me away. The sad thing is that he is a police officer and uses that position to manipulate women. I am suing the city for negligence because they are aware of his doings and facilitate his behavior. He falsified our marriage certificate as well. I have been telling my story all over town and the more I do, the more I hear awful things about his past. I'm so glad my friend told me about narcissism. I just learned of it today but it has helped a bunch already to help me understand that this was not my fault.

After many years, I decided to let the family know of 20 years of abuse from a sibling. They didn't believe me. They avoid me now and think i am just stirring up trouble. They are avoiding me. I am avoiding them. Peace at last.

The narcissist is already prepared and has stratedgy in place. They expect you to react to what they said or did and have an ambush waiting. Don't react. They are so confident in their ability to push buttons and get reactions, that even if you don't react, they still behave as though you did. Then they reveal the big liars that they are. After they get caught, they accuse you of setting them up. You say, "set up for what, what are you talking about, and how did I set you up?" They say, "you know" because they can't reveal it was them that was setting you up.

I do...but then again I didn't really have to. Mine is such an obvious controller that I was first warned by others before I began to speak out about the things they didn't know about. I suppose it's up to the individual whether they want to expose the N. It might be beneficial though for when things eventually get rocky.

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Teachers vs Students

Student vs Student

Student vs Students

Student vs himself

Student vs the whole school.

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