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What do you do if you found out that your husband is having an emotional affair with another woman?
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∙ 16y ago
1. Tell him it needs to stop
2. Ask him if you've been distant or ungiving to him (most of the time this is it).
3. Tell him you'll change and he will need to also.
4. If he is a roaming jerk, forget all of the above.
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∙ 16y ago
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∙ 13y agoI would say to talk to him about it, if he is gay, well at least you'll have a new gay best friend who knows you well. Don't forget that he did marry you, which probably means that, even though he is not sexually attracted to you, he undoubtedly loves you.
No matter how hurt you are, you need to accept him for who he is, because what you think will probably be really important to him.
If you do have children, let them see their dad, it would be unfair to take it out on them, it could also encourage disobedience, as they might try to sneak out and see them.
Don't try to hide their fathers sexuality from them. If they found out you had been hiding it, they may be pretty angry at you.
Also, keep the split amicable. What you say and do now will eventually come back round. The pettier you are, the less respect they will have for you in the future.
If you are tempted to get back with him, imagine how you would feel if he had cheated on you with a women, because it is essentially the same. But it is your choice. Do what is best for you.
As for your friend, remain open minded until you talk to them. There may be a reason
for what he did to you. Remain calm when you talk to him, don't lash out ( however tempting ). The result of this conversation will tell you if he's remorseful, or not. It is your decision how you react to him afterward.
Don't get violent, it will not help.
Take the help you need from family/friends, it is for times like this that they are there for, but don't take the liberty.
And, at the end of the day, all of what I have just said is objective. Only follow my advise if you think that it will help.
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What do you say to the person your husband is having an emotional affair with?
Take what you said to your husband (because, you know, he's not without blame for this, either), and modify it as you see fit.
If another woman if having affair with your husband what charges can you file on her she is my niece?
None. Having an affair is not a criminal matter for her. I don't know what country you live in, but maybe your husband is guilty of some adultery crime.
What is the final stage of an affair my husband's?
if you leave his cheating butt, he is no longer having an affair, he's getting laid elsewhere...you should be healing your emotional wounds and standing on your feet NOT your knees
Can you sue your husband for having an affair?
No
What are the symptoms when your husband has an affair?
if he is accusing you of having an affair, when you are not.
Does your husband has more chemistry with the woman he's having an affair with than he does with you?
Yes, that is why he is having an affair.
Can you overcome the emotional turmoil of finding out your spouse has been having emotional affair?
Yes!
Can a wife be arrested for slapping a women that is having an affair with her husband?
Yes, striking another adult is assault and/or battery.
Did I do the right thing by telling the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband?
No, it is not a mistake to tell the husband his wife was having an affair with your husband. However, some wives can be in denial and they may not believe their husband is cheating, but most do.
What should you do with friend who thinks that you are having an affair with her boyfriend or husband?
Confront him/her and tell the truth, if you are or aren't having a(n) affair with her boyfried/husband/fiance.
What are signs that you are having an emotional affair?
An "emotional affair" is an affair, which excludes physical intimacy but includes emotional intimacy. It may also be called an affair of the heart. Where one partner is in a committed monogamous relationship, an emotional affair is a type of chaste nonmonogamy without consummation. When the affair breaches an agreement in the monogamous relationship of one of the partners to the affair, the term infidelity may be more apt source: wikipedia
How can I explain my affair to my husband and that there was no intimacy?
You will have to think very clearly about telling your husband about having an emotional affair. Most men do not believe a woman can have an emotional affair and not have a sexual relationship. There is a high possibility that your husband may not believe that when you had an affair there was no sex involved although this is highly possible, but not in his mind. What you can do is learn good communication skills and you must have had your reasons (that clouded your judgment) to have an affair and you need to deal with these problems. Take time to think why you felt the need to have an emotional affair in the first place and then sit down with your husband and express why you are unhappy in the marriage and perhaps seek Marriage Counseling or the two of you could make a better effort with each other to make your marriage a more solid one. Once you have broken that bond of trust with your spouse it is difficult to gain their trust back.
