What do you do if you hate you parents?

Answer 1

Well nobody hate's no one. My Dad Yells at me and I get sad too, I hate him for the moment. But I'm really connected to my mom, I tell my the problems I'm having you should do the same. If you don't like your dad try to sit down and tell your mom or just tell you dad your not liking how he's acting maybe he will change. I hope you feel better.

Answer 2

Some mothers should never have become mothers, but thankfully, most mothers are the best thing a son or daughter will ever have in their life. Here are reasons not to hate your mother:

• If she hounds you about getting a good education.
• If she wants you to study more.
• If she has a curfew on what time you come home or perhaps she doesn't want you out on a school night at all.
• Getting you to do chores at home.
• If she seems sharp in her comments to you at times. You have the opportunity to ask her what is going on if you didn't deserve that comment.
• Complaining about the styles of clothing or makeup you are wearing.
• Not wanting you to go out to certain parties or hang around certain groups of girls or boys.
• Wanting to meet the boys you date.
• Perhaps she feels you are too young to date. Good mothers learn to say the word 'no' to their children because they want their children to have the best things in life such as a good education, perhaps a career, traveling and the freedom to make their own choices by being mature and independent.

A young person may not see this at the time it's happening. If you are not a minor and you hate your mother for various reasons realize that she could have mental issues; she may be going through her menopause (women can get very testy during this time because their hormones are all over the place ... this generally can happen if their 40's up.)

It could be side effects of medications she is on. Look at your mother as a woman first, then your mother. Have the guts to sit down with your mother and ask her what is bothering her. She may feel lonely, dejected, fearful of becoming old where no one will need her.

If she has been truly abusive to you by hitting, name-calling then take a break from your mother and get on with your own life. Keep the visits down to once or twice a month and if that bothers you let your mother know in a calm manner that you've had enough and then move on.

Answer 3

You need to think about why you hate them. If it's for a good reason, like abuse, then GET HELP from someone you trust. It can cause a lot of pain for you to believe a parent hates you, because you're parents are a beacon of unconditional love. If it's taken away, your like a stray boat without a lighthouse. Lost and alone. But before you drown or abandon ship, try TALKING to you're parent or parents about it. If they say they DO hate you and MEAN it, again; Tell someone you trust that you know can help you. Because NO ONE deserves to be destroyed like that.

Answer 4

you should just leave him alone and then he will come and talk to you when he is over it

Addendum:

Your father does not hate you. While he may become frustrated, annoyed, or even angry because of things you might do, he does not love you any less.

Try this, after he calms down, ask him if he hates you. Likely as not he will be confused by your question and want to know why you came up with it. Simply explain to him that you believe he did because of the argument or disagreement you had earlier.

Answer 5

Sometimes we hear about ex wifes or ex husbands. We never hear about an ex father or an ex mother. Being a son is a life time thing. Fathers are not a hundred dollar bill meaning not all people likes them. Not liking your father is not a unsual behavior.

Answer 6

ok were i go if you hate your parents i know how you feel, first you need to stick up for your self and be consiterant second you have to be louder than them and when you get introuble at school and get written up practice your parents hand signature and sign the wright up and if you do that and it works good job hoped it helped and if u need more answers contact me by messaging me kk

Answer 7

well if your dad hates you just ignore him and stay around your friends, and people that care about you. it has worked for me