What do you do if you like a girl and she likes you to but your dad and mom don't won't you too be together?

Answer 1

Say these words to your parents (or show them this response to your question): "I understand that I am a hormonal teenager, and that this can sometimes affect my judgement. In my inexperienced mind, I feel that I would like to spend more time with (this girl), and I was wondering why you are reluctant to let this happen; I don't understand your motivations. People say that I will better appreciate your advice when I'm a little older, so I don't want to discount what you're telling me now and potentially damage our relationship. However, since I am interested in (this girl), I was hoping we could come to some sort of agreement regarding the progression of my relationship with her." Listen to what they have to say, and answer any of their questions with honesty and without judgement. If they need time to ponder their response or talk to (this girl's) parents, 24 hours is reasonable. If they come to a justified conclusion, obey their decision. If you like their decision, say "Thank you". If you don't like it, say "OK" and walk away, or tell them politely "I don't like that decision, but I will respect it". Don't raise your voice. If you demonstrate that you can act in a level headed manner and accept the advice of those older and wiser than yourself, you demonstrate the growth of your own maturity, and in the future, your parents will be more likely consider your desires in their decision making.