What do you do if you think your dad is cheating?

Answer 1

Sweetie go to him and be honest to what you thought he is doing. If you don't and he is, a lot of people will get hurt especially you. Your father owe you this much by telling you the truth. You can also talk to your Mom so she can help you with the questions that you have about your dad. Please don't let this pass or it will be messy. I know because I have 2 daughters and my girls was really hurt and betrayed by their father that they worship since they were little girls....good luck!

Answer 2

Hire a private investigator. Take pictures.

ANSWER:

No one will ever know if our father or mother is cheating. Kids who's young and old will never know if one of the parents is cheating, unless the kid sees the parent. Most father are careful when it comes to him cheating, the children will not realize it. Children are the innocent by standard when it comes to their parents..

Answer 3

This really is an awful situation for you to be in. I am sorry that this has happened to you. I don't know what to tell you. This is really a heavy burden for you to carry it around. First, this is not your fault in any way. Second this will change your relationship with your dad whether you want it to or not.

Your image of your father has just been shattered. It will take some time for you to adjust to this new situation. Is there a trusted adult that you could talk to about this? Whether you tell you mom or not there now has been a major change in your relationship with your father. You are probably very angry at him right now and also very sad because you are thinking about how does this affect your mom.

You will be feeling these conflicting emotions for a long time to come. You might feel that every time your father talks to your mom that he is lying to her. Ordinary conversations between the two of them from your point of view is a lie. How can he say he loves mom when he is having an affair with someone else.

You might lose all respect for your father, this is not an uncommon reaction for anyone to have. You may not trust him either. You might think this is not my dad anymore because he is a liar and a cheat.

One thing I do know is that secrets can cause a lot of damage to people who hide them. You should not have to carry this burden by your self. Your dad has made a choice and this affair will cause damage to everyone in the family. You are not responsible for the mistakes your father has made. By keeping this secret you do harm to yourself.

A lot of husbands and wives cheat on each other. This doesn't make it right. This is just a fact of everyday life. Your mom may already know that he is cheating. You have a very difficult choice to make. Do you keep the secret of your dad having the affair or do you tell your mom.

I think you need to tell your mom about this. Honesty in this case is justified. You need to be brave and just tell your mom what you saw. Always remember that no matter what happens it is not your fault.