What do you do if your brother ask you to choose between him and your boyfriend and you love them both equally and cant live without them while both are nice and love you dearly?
Smack your brother in the face for asking such a stupid question
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\n. \n Answer \n. \nEither make a decision and pick one or face the fact that you are emotionally immature and will never be able to have a real relationship.\n. \n … Answer \n. \nYou just want it all! You weren't fair with your ex and now you aren't fair with your present boyfriend. You just want your ex because you can't stand the thought of another girl dating him. Yes, it's time you did mature!
well if you think that he is the one that you want to spent your life with and you know that he trully loves you then i don't see why not. but i think its best to discuss this… with your parents and tell them he/she is the one and hopefully they can agree on this.
Answer . You need to have a place to be able to reflect on this matter alone. Take the time to open your heart and look honestly at what your situation is right now. You'v…e been with one 19 years,does that not justify that you do love this person. If you didn't you'd been gone long ago.Do you have fond memories with this person. Of course there is always going to be up and downs in any relationship it's never going to be a bed of roses 24/7. Can you truly count on this person to be there for you and have they been there for you when you need them. Sometimes we think we have fallen out of love with a long term partner because it has become so comfortable with them,and,we tend to begin to take each other for granted. When this problem finally arrives we sometimes begin to think that they don't love us or we we don't love them any longer. This is when a couple begin to drift away from each other. We may not go anywhere together as a couple much as we use to or one or both of us may have stopped caring what we look like. Talking with each other may not be like it should be. But all in all look back,there are many good memories there. Do everything you can possibly do to try and make the older relationship work. Have you done this? If so does the person who you've been in the longer relationship know how you feel? If not at least have the guts to sit down with this person and have a heart to heart talk. It's not fair to them if you don't. Your not in the relationship alone you know. Maybe they are just as unhappy as you are. As for the other five year relationship why has it taken so long for a decsion to be made if you also love this person? Is there a doubt there along the line that has casued you to stay with the longterm partner for five extra years instead of being with this other person? You know you can't have your cake and eat it too,most people don't like to share,and in the long run it will cause nothing but heartache and stress on both relationships for you as well as the both of them. Please think this over very carefully.
My heart is split in two by two guys i love them both dearly but how do i tell which one is true love?
well you can't have them both. you need to look over what the good and bad things. which ever one has the most values...that's the one that you should stick with...the one tha…t you think will treat you right and not do you wrong. yeah that's just my opinion so if you don't like it I'm sorry!
If you have a boyfriend who you find out is wiuth your best guy friend but says he loves you both equally but won't choose between the two even though the boy is just using him what do you do?
Break up with the boyfriend. You're obviously not his top priority, and there's no need for you to make him yours.
break up with him girl. answer . ask him "Do you love me enough to break up with her?" if he says no...you have to break up with him. its not fair for you to love him while …he loves another.
Should i move 3 hours away from were i live to be with my boyfriend we are both 18 and we both love each other?
You could . . . but if you guys ever break up would you still wanna live there??!!
well this may sound corny, but follow your heart. you will know which one is right for you.
show them the type of love that every parent needs to give their kids. equal love is emotional,be a thankful mom that you have two amazing kids. don't share one love that jigg…lez inside show them all of it. not one because that right there just tells me you don't care to eat the other apple. hi my name is Lisa be a mother. kiss your kids,tuck them both into bed,read both of them bed time stories. do something that will make you an awsome parent. you might not here that alot but you need to work on sharing your heart with two kids, not one.
Both are still in love but cant decide on where to live Should you break up with your boyfriend after being in an 8 yrs long distance relationship?
If you both are still in LOVE... then breaking is not an option just because you can't make up your mind.Especially after eight YEARS!!!DANG!!CONGRATS!!!Just choose a random p…lace and it should be fine if you have eachother...
he may call you very often... ask about your events and lastly he never miss to wiish ur birthday:-) . I once was both far and in love from my girlfriend. It was sad but I …knew because she texts me lots of time a lot. lol yay!!11
You don't you forget about her. ANSWER: Don't play on fire or else it will come back to you and really hit you. Maybe we can love two person but you can't really have bot…h of them especially if the other one is your ex. Think about it why did this guy become your ex, if its real love for this man the two of you will not break up, no matter who did the wrong thing. So don't you think the other guy deserve your heart without sharing it to the other man?
You are in love with your brothers best mate and could see you both getting together in the future but you cant imaging having sex with him without it being awkward afterwards?
You are a geek, just be a real woman and get it over with. Pound him like he likes it.
Just sit down, think, listen to your heart, and wait for that signal from God (if you believe in God if not just some type of signal). Also don't drag it out to long or one wi…ll get really hurt.
To be honest he's an ex for a REASON. Whatever it was that broke you two up, you need to have some sort of relationship. It's best to talk, and hang out as friends. Work your …way up with the occasional flirt like touching his arm or the longer friendly hugs and smiles. Make the other person feel comfortable in your presence then tell him how you feel and hope for the best. c:
Whom do you choose between brother and husband when your brother ask you to choose and you love both of them equally?
Any answer of either option here would be pure opinion on part of the person answering. I'm guessing that if your brother has gone to the extreme of offering you this ultimatu…m, there are some deep issues going on within your family relationships at the moment. You are the only person who knows what's in your heart. Perhaps you can tell your brother that you love them both equally, and talk to him about how any differences between him and your husband may be resolved.