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What do you do if your ex-boyfriend still cares about you but is forcing himself to get over you?

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2011-09-13 10:24:06
2011-09-13 10:24:06

You tell him that it's stupid not to realize you two are meant to be together then. If he's trying to stop liking you, it's most likely not going to work. Sit him down and talk to him, explain how you feel and ask how he does, and tell him that feelings are feelings and he cannot just force them out of himself.

Then be happy ever after.

AnswerAs the other poster said it's time to sit down and talk to your boyfriend. The main question is "Why is he forcing himself to get over you if he loves you?" Do you have another boyfriend, are you married, insecure within yourself?" There has got to be a reason. People who love you don't go to all this trouble of trying to get over you. There is a plug in the bottle and you know what it is! Answerwell, I am going through the same situation!!My boyfriend just broke up with me after 4.5 years of GREAT relationship!!! Since one year he is in another country for studies and things were still great after that for 1.5 years.we used to talk daily inspite of having more than 8700 miles!!!but then he just mailed me and told me that he don't love me!! I was shocked at that time and was totally confused!! He said he never loved me !!! he said that she met a girl there(with whome he is not in a relationship..just friend) but he don't know why he felt like crying when he felt that they both cannot be togather!! He said that it was a trigger for him which made him realise that he did not feel same for me!! and so he may not love me!! He said he don't know whether he loves that girl or not!! But now after 4 years he is saying that he never loved me what he used to tell me daily..!!!...(after the trigger given by that girl..!!!)That was a shock of my life!!!He said he is not atall guilty for our relation and our relation was not a mistake!! I called him and tried to sort out the things..but all in vein!! Its like now he has stop mailing me,calling me, no offlines and has stop chatting with me.But still he told his best friend that he cares for me and want that i should be happy in my life!!! his friend told me that he is forcing himself to help me out to get over him!!!!! So he has stop contacting me!!! That is horrible!!! And now he is continuing saying that he had never loved me but still committing that it was a pleasure being with me and he don't regrate anything!!! This man has drive me crazy!!! But all my affort to get him back to me did not worked!! So now i am just waiting for him to get back to me..!! I am not going to call him or anything like that...i will just wait !! and i will also move on with my life!!!It hurts a lot and its not good...but i have to accept it because i have no option!!

Because caring about some one doesnt mean they love them enough to commit to them. u can still care alot, but if theres not love. it will be empty.

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