What do you do if your ex-fiance will not even consider getting back together with you until you stand up to your manipulative controlling parents who destroyed your relationship?

Answer 1

It sounds like you're the ping-pong ball, being tossed from one side of the table to the other. First, your parents. Now, your ex-fiance. What's missing from your question is: What do you want? How do you feel about it? If you're old enough to marry, you're old enough to stop being manipulated by anyone. You must ask yourself the very difficult questions, like: Am I ready to jump from my parents to a marriage? Will I be missing things that I really want to experience by becoming engaged again? Do I want to be with my fiance because it's a way out of my parent's control? Only you can answer those questions. Your private answers will give you the motivation to do what you need to do. But I have a feeling that this situation will eventually become another Wiki question: "How do I get out of a marriage that I got into because of my manipulative, controlling fiance?" I'm afraid no one will be able to answer that question when it comes up.