What do you do when the one you love says he has fallen out of love with you?

Ask wayward mate is he is trying to justify infidelity or if he has a crush on another. Just the statement in itself,"I have fallen out of love with you." will damage your relationship and possibly your self esteem if the committment doesn't drive your mate to sincerely communicate his feelings. You and your mate should seek couseling together, and if not, seperately. Does he want to save your relationship?