What do you do when you think you are losing your boyfriend?

Answer 1

Well there aren't very many things that are always relationship killers. What might seem a reason to break up with you for one man doesn't necessarily mean it is for another man.

Cheating would be one of the things that are most of the time dealbreakers.

but I can't give you a list of reasons that are universal for all people I'm afraid.

Some men break up with a woman for having freckles so to speak, and others tolerate absolutely everything. You're just gonna have to find out the boundaries yourself. Talk to your boyfriend, so you get a pretty good picture of the things he can't abide, and the things he values most in a relationship. Only he can give you the information you need about this. So talk to him, it'll help, trust me.

Answer 2

Don't make a big mistake and second guess your boyfriend's feelings. Communication is always the key in a relationship. Tell him that you feel things have changed in your relationship and is he unhappy in it. This way you have given him a chance to express his feelings and if he doesn't and refuses to communicate then take a separation from each other and date others and see if each of you really loves the other. There could be many reasons your boyfriend is acting the way he is and it could be he has personal problems or is depressed. Here are some indications that your boyfriend is lacking interest in you: * He doesn't keep in contact with you as much as he use too. * He doesn't take you out on the weekends. * He doesn't hold you hand or make any emotional signs towards you. * He doesn't kiss you as often as he did before. * He breaks dates. * He breaks promises to you. * He refuses to tell you where he has been or who he has been out with. This doesn't mean that you should grill him about everywhere he goes, but you could say 'Did you have a nice time last night? What did you do?' If a person has nothing to hide they wouldn't mind answering this question. * He has poor communication skills and instead of saying he wants to go out with male buddies every so often he says nothing. Teach him about communication between two people. * He ignores you completely when you are out together and doesn't introduce you to any new friends he may have. * He seldom compliments you on your looks; a new dress, etc., when he use to. If he refuses to communicate and gets angry when you question him about the relationship you have then it's time to put the spurs into his flanks and let him know that you aren't putting up with his immaturity and if he feels he wants more freedom he's got it and you're moving on. Most guys like a girl that isn't extremely dependent on them and is a bit fiery and knows what they want and where they are going. If he feels you will just sit around taking this behavior from him he'll lose respect for you. You are in charge of what is best for you and no one else.

Answer 3

You need to sit him down and talk to him. Get him to admit what's wrong. Talk about how to fix this problem and prevent it from happening next time.

Answer 4

It depends on what you feel like doing, if you want to dump him, dump him but if you want to wait and see if he does anything to make you like him again, that is your choice.

Answer 5

You don't. Eventually it will crawl to the very depths of your soul and make you drink his blood so that he may forever be a part of you