What do you do when your friend betrays you for a girl?

Answer 1

It's a tough situation when a friend betrays you. From the beginning of time, people have dealt with this pain. It's even dealt with in The Bible (see Psalm 41:9). The best thing for you to do for yourself is to forgive her (or him). Forgiveness is good for you because it brings you freedom for anger, bitterness and the need for revenge. Forgiveness is the mature way to deal with a betrayal and may actually help to heal the relationship over time.

Answer 2

It depends on the magnitude of the betrayal and whether you feel you can forgive them or not. People make mistakes and some deserve a second chance however, go with your gut instinct because others will repeat themselves and it is possible to get burnt again. It depends on how close you are. Maybe sitting and having a talk with her to give her a chance to explain as well as you to tell her how it made/makes you feel. Maybe then you will both know where your friendship can go at that point.

Answer 3

You Stab them....You stick em real good...In the face...

Then you laugh manically as they ask...

WHY?!?!? OH MY GOD!! NO-(squirt, squirt)

Realistically, you just don't trust them anymore. Move on, and attempt to nurture better relationships. Sometimes confrontation is needed, but other times it won't accomplish anything.

Answer 4

Just tell her how you feel about what she did and if she doesn't care

You find another best friend

or buy here a Bff necklace which can be split and let her wear one half and you put the other half on your phone or keys.

And if she wears the necklace for more than a week she still is your best friend but everyone has their favorites and they treat them well but they also have their most favourites are treated best

Answer 5

• When a friend lies once or twice this can be considered normal, but when they lie and purposely hurt another friend and then deny they lied this is not your best friend. No matter how hurtful you may feel you should stop this friendship and free yourself up to make other friends and you will eventually meet someone that will be a trustworthy best friend.

Answer 6

This is a difficult question, and it has neither an easy nor a universal answer. Each person's relationship with each friend is different. However, there are a few options.

Sometimes it's best just to admit you were wrong (even if you weren't.) Maybe come to a compromise: apologize for any and all mistakes you may have made, and your friend might do the same. I'm going to bring a little bit of psychology into this. Often, arguments arise over trivial matters, and then escalate. When people are told they are wrong, they begin to feel some degree of threatened, whether or not they realize it consciously. And when people feel threatened, they become defensive and start building emotional "walls." They become less inclined to listen to what the other person has to say, and start focusing even more on themselves. It becomes more and more difficult to reach a compromise. (This is why it's often beneficial to just walk away from an argument, and if it's still important when both parties have calmed down, to revisit it later) Readdressing the issue when both of you have calmed down may prove helpful. Be sure to do so in a non-aggressive manner. Avoid statements like "You never" or "You don't know how I feel." You cannot speak accurately for anyone but yourself. Instead use specific examples, like "It made me feel ______ when you did/said _______, and I really would like you stop." It may be difficult, especially if the matter is particularly sensitive, but try your best to go about the conversation in a calm and collected manner. Be logical and reasonable, and don't let your emotions get the best of you.

Remember that even if you really, really think it's all your friend's fault, he/she may think the same about you. A good talk can mend rifts and save a valuable friendship.

However, if, after this talk, you realize that your friend really was acting unreasonable and out of control, or that he/she blew the whole situation seriously out of proportion, it may be best to break off the friendship.

Sometimes friends do horrible things. If it is impossible for the two of you to get along anymore, then severing the tie may be the best option. However, remember to consider your friend's reasons for acting the way they did. You may find that you were out of line as well.

That said, I don't know the reason for your argument, and I'm not going to pry. Just remember to do what feels best for you. A good rule of thumb is to never do anything, or make any decision, when your judgment may be clouded by your emotions.

I hope that this helped, and I hope that you and your friend can make amends.

Best wishes,

-A.

Answer 7

try to become friends again, if they dont want to, then try to end the friendship as just people in a school, or something

Answer 8

i will snub such person and still keep me head high like to me the person is not a friend period