How do you get a girl to stop hitting on my boyfriend?

Answer 1

First off your boyfriend should get a spine and say "no!" Ask him if that word is in his vocabulary. I would handle it by telling the girl "hands off" but I'd have a talk with that boyfriend of yours and tell him you don't like it and he has the control of saying "no." If he refuses, kick this guy to the curb and start dating again. Good luck Marcy It's all your boyfriend..BUT you can just kiss or hug your boyfriend when she is around and make sure she leaves...GIVE HER THE LOOK..Show this girl who he is with so she knows better then to cross the line. Answer The best way to chase someone away is to be happy. If your boyfriend is a standup guy he is tellng her no anyway. I wouldn't suggest being territorial, this can back fire on you. Be nice to this person unless she gives YOU cause to not be. Flirting with your boyfriend is a compliment, isn't it? Your boyfriend will be more impressed by this than anything else and its really about the two of you, not him and this other girl. You can't control anyone's behavior but your own. I would say it is fine to address this with your boyfriend, let him know it makes you uncomfortable. Its then up to him to behave the way he will behave and up to the girl to find another target. I'm soon to have a degree in psychology and I believe the best way is to be nice to her. It sounds strange but it's reverse psychology. People want what they can't have, they also love confrontation. If you give a girl the idea that you are upset by her behaviour with your boyfriend, she will continue and have the time of her life! Even if she doesn't really want your guy! As for your boyfriend, if you start acting all jealous and bitchy, he will wonder why you care so much; after all he's not your property right? He might even start to see you as possessive or insecure. The best thing to do is to wander over to the conversation, relax, give a big smile and join in. Pretend you are at a party and the girl is someone you want to meet. Pay the girl a compliment and MEAN IT, don't be fake as that will be obvious. You could say something like "Wow I can see why he's chatting to you, you're gorgeous!" Continue to chat to her and your boyfriend for a bit, show your best side, keep the conversation positive and then MOVE AWAY. Go and chat to another group of people, don't keep looking over...mingle! Show that you're there to have a good time. Your boyfriend will love you even more for this as it shows that you trust him, you're a nice person and you're not a nagging headache. You will look secure, confident and utterly desirable in your boyfriend's eyes. After all, how many girls would have the security and 'better person' attitude to do this? It's not the most obvious course of action and therefore you will stand out as being fabulous. Answer

Answer 2

Take her aside when you're alone and tell her it bugs you when she does this and you wish she'd stop. If she freaks out on you that means she isn't a good friend and its time to make a new best friend.

Answer 3

Tell your boyfriend how you feel about it and for him to tell her to stop cause not only is it making you suffer, its also putting your relationship at risk. And if he really likes/loves you he will tell her to stop.

Whatever you do don't dump him if you really love him, this is all she wants so she can get back together with him. If she dumped him for somebody else she's obviously got dumped and is regretting dumping him.

If this happens it shows how lucky you are to have him and you shouldn't let her get what she wants.

Answer 4

This is coming from a boys perspective. How close you are with him determines whether its OK for them to be flirting with him and at what magnitude they can. If someone is flirting too much with your boyfriend tell him about it and ask if he could not flirt with them or if you can flirt with others, try to be very relaxed with these dilemmas and let it carry on to some extent, just let your boyfriend know that no matter what happens with other people you will always be with them, once when you tell him this thing will be much closer and more enjoyable. In your case, this can all be completely different though. If you two aren't that close, and he's been known as a bit of a player, then he probably is the one flirting, so take him to one side and ask him what's been going on behind your back as you have heard some rumors (it doesn't matter if you have). If he acts sneaky, or tense or self conscious, then make him look into your eye and tell you the truth.

Answer 5

first talk to her about him like how amazing he is and see how she'll react, second warn her that he's yours and nobody else's, if it doesn't work then kick her ass

Answer 6

just go and tell her off she is probably just lonely and needs someone

Answer 7

well if shes your friend you should talk to her and tell her that you don't like it and she might stop if she really is your Friend.

Answer 8

Don't be friends with them. Simple as that if they are truly your friend they will respect you and your boyfriend and not get in the way of your relationship.