What do you do when your not allowed to date but you have a boyfriend?

Answer 1

You do the only sensible and honorable thing you can do. You obey your parents. If your boyfriend really cares about you, he will not push you to go against your parents, especially if you are young. If you are 13, 14, maybe even 15, you most likely are not emotionally and psychologically ready for the dating scene and your parents realize that. Many young people that age think they are very mature, but would not know how to handle certain dating situations. If you are 16 or 17, then you might sit down with your parents and attempt to get them to change their minds. In any event, you will thank yourself later for trusting your parents and obeying their rules. If you lose your boyfriend because you are not allowed to date, chances are he is either too old for you or he doesn't really care as much for you as you think he does. Ah no. I hate it when people say I'm not mature enough for a relationship, I know I'm not mature enough for many things in life, but not for that. Not every 14/15 year old is the same, meaning they can know about relationships as many other people, either from religion,loved ones, or just people you trust. Many people still don't believe me.... so fustrating. Please forgive me if I offended you. No offense was intended. Life can be very frustrating, especially in your teenage years. I have posted my response in the Discussion section of this question. To go there, just click on "Discussion" at the top of this box.

Answer 2

Do a group thing. You'll be way more comfortable that way and your parents will just figure you are going to the movies with a group of friends. Works EVERY time. You sit with him, he feels more comfortable with others around and so do you. If you want a little privacy, get your own booth with him or your own seats, etc.

Answer 3

I'm not allowed to date and Id had a boyfriend I just didn't tell my parents or anyone in family a part from the one person I trusted. Keep it queit but if you can't tell one person from your family and make them promise they wont say anything.

Answer 4

You should perhaps dump your boyfirend and listen to your parents advice. You may believe that you love him, but there are plenty more fish in this salt water sea. Don't worry, one day, they will allow it. But for now, just go with what your parents say. If the guy you like loves you all that much, he will wait for your parents to approve.