I am a woman so I can only speak as a wife who would never leave a dying husband. I am familiar with the "never say never" adage but have remained committed to a dying mother followed by a dying father and was never tempted to "run".
If you're a narcissist this impending death is your signal to find the pleasure that life has denied you. Your dying wife will have to find someone else for emotional support since she won't be any good to you anymore. Now there's an even playing field. The inconvenience of having a responsibility that is emotionally uncomfortable wasn't what you had in mind during the "repeating of the vows". She already knows your biding your time until she kicks and if she hangs around too long you'll use your opportunist skills to find just the right time to exit.
No matter the marital situation at the time of diagnosis it is immoral and inhuman to abandon a spouse emotionally when they are looking dead in the eyes of death. Pun intended. Death is scary without love. All hope is gone without love. Just take a moment to think about hope. It's always there till the end and when there's love we're able to trust enough to let it go.
Presence and touch. Soft words and gentle kisses to her forehead or cheek (frequently). A spoon to her mouth with broth. Lying beside her whether in the marital bed (no matter how long its' been marital) or a hospital bed. Brushing her hair and stroking her arm. Holding her hand. Sharing your feelings about those hallmark moments in your lives together. The births of your children, your vacations, the picnic at the lake and yes, the Super Bowl Sundays. This (and more) would be the wish list of the dying woman.
Those of you who are not in love might try pretending to be. You'd be amazed what a dying woman will believe.
Those of you who love your wife need no advice. Just do what she knows has always meant you love her. She knows you love her anyway and wants more than anything to die so you won't suffer.
Just don't give in. It's a brutal time but being fully there is the noble thing to do. Check the literature. There's a lot to be said for dying a noble man.
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No. Maybe you are thinking of Brett Favre whose wife, Deanna, was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2004.
she developed breast cancer in 1937 but what she died from was heart failure in 1938
Joy Davidman, the wife of C.S. Lewis, died from bone cancer (specifically, metastatic breast cancer that spread to her bones).
The wife of Brett Favre is Deanna Tynes Favre. She was born in 1968 and started a breast cancer foundation after being diagnosed with breast cancer in 2004.
Craig morgan
Could be...but it could just be a fat deposit. Go get it checked out, breast cancer is treatable if found in its early stages.
Lisa Niemi is a live and well.
It was Senator John Edwards of North Caroline. He cheated on his wife Elizabeth Edwards and had a child with the woman he was having an affair with. Elizabeth Edwards had cancer while he was cheating on her and she died just yesterday December 7th 2010 because of Breast Cancer.
No, Angelina Jolie never had breast cancer. She has the gene for breast cancer. She removed her breasts to stop any cancer from forming.Angelina Jolie does not have breast cancer. She does carry the gene for breast cancer. She had a preventive mastectomy.No, Angelina Jolie has never had breast cancer. She was tested and told that she carried the breast cancer gene. She has a preventive mastectomy.Angelina Jolie does not or did not have breast cancer. She had breast surgery just as a precaution because of her mother having breast cancer.
Breast sucking will not avoid breast cancer.
Breast cancer is a disease.
no breast cancer is not infectious