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  • There is nothing much you can do when your spouse leaves you for another woman. No matter how heartbreaking it is dig in your heels and don't beg him to come back and start out by getting out with friends and having a little fun for yourself even if there are children involved. You can always trade-off babysitting with a girlfriend, but remind yourself that if you do have children that they suffer the loss of their father not living with their mother and often children may blame themselves for the break up and you will have to assure them that sometimes adults can fall out of love with each other and it has nothing to do with them. Remind your husband that you could get him on desertion and if you divorce him you will most likely get half of everything he has. If you want to wait at least seek legal advice and get child support (which every father should pay) or even support for yourself if you are not working. Most men who leave their wives generally do not stay with their mistress for too long (perhaps six to eight months if that and depending on the individuals) and a good percentage of men get it out of their system and want to come back to their wife. Sometimes people just think the grass is always greener on the other side of the fence. Don't ever let your husband think you cannot get along in life without him and if he wants to come back home get him to date you first before you allow him back into your life.
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13y ago
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15y ago

You hold yourself together and take a deep breath until you realize that you have but one life to live and it's not the end of the world. You must go on with your life one day at a time and get back to being you. I know it's easier said than done, but think of this: if, god forbid, she had passed away while still married to you, you would have had to move on with your life, so this is no different, except now, the life you shared with someone else is over and you can find someone else to share you life with, maybe someone more compatible to you. Good luck and don't be too hard on yourself.

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12y ago

When your wife leaves the kitchen, your marriage is basically over. She's unable to fulfill her main role as a woman, and thus needs to be taught this by divorce. She can take the kids, but you get to keep the dog.

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13y ago

A lot would depend on if the couple had children and if so, their ages. A wife with a young child or children usually hasn't much time for anything but caring for the family and home. If the children are older or if the wife has a full or part time job, she is also caring for the needs of the family and home. If the children are old enough, she may have also taken on some community service or school volunteering. Both of these groups also do the majority of the interaction with extended family members. These groups of women have little time for things that they would like to do for themselves.

Wives that have no children at home also have care of the home, extended family relationships, and community service to occupy their time but usually have more time to spend doing things that please them. What those things are are as varied as are women's personalities.

How much or how little the above applies to every wife whose husband is away or gone for good is hard to say. There is no simple answer to this question, because wives are people and as individual as any people.

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14y ago

flirt with a new girl. (if you are desperate)

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14y ago

get a divorce

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15y ago

Change the locks

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