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Answered 2008-05-06 15:50:01

Ask: What is it about my behavior -- state specific instance - that makes you feel uncomfortable? If your partner states a specific instance, suggest that you will change your behavior - and this must always be a tit-for-tat - if your partner will also change some behavior that you object to. All accomodations must be mutual.

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