What does it mean if one of your ex-girlfriends said you were too serious and is there a way not to be too serious in a relationship?

Answer 1

Most modern women of today are very independent (at least for a while for some of them) and they act more like the males have been acting by shying away from a serious relationship. Young women can want careers, have more sexual freedom and can come and go as they want and this started in the 60s when it was accepted by most of the younger society. You know "love, peace and let it all hang out!" Believe it or not this attitude of going out and working and being a more independent woman began during WWII. While the men went off to fight women had to take their jobs, but when the war was over the government snubbed their noses at the women and as much as told them to go home, cook, clean and look after their kids. The last laugh was on the government because women had come to realize that indeed they had a brain beyond doing wifely chores (not that there is anything wrong with that.) It's been a struggle, but now there are women that can take many positions in a man's career orientated world. So, pick girls that best suit your personality and when you ask them out on a date take things slow and easy. Don't let them know too much about yourself and keep them guessing. If you find a girl you are truly in love with then take it easy, treat her well, but don't spoil her and expect back from her as good as you give. If she loves you then you should have a good balance going in your relationship. Don't make yourself too available!