What does it mean when a man distances himself from you for a few days after making love?

Answer 1

As we know men are so different than women. Men are usually kind and attentive during the act of lovemaking, but after ... well they go on with their daily lives, while women sometimes sit around and lavish themselves in the thought of the moment. You have to ask yourself what do you expect from this man. Here is a lazy guy: Get's romantic, you make love, then he rolls over, either belches, has that almighty smoke, perhaps a drink or more than likely goes to sleep! What do you feel like? Well, I can well imagine ... lovey, want to cuddle and let this precious moment go for a little bit longer. Unfortunately, many men just aren't like that. Here is a guy that is into himself: Romantic (perhaps) makes love, gets out of bed to shower and leaves. He may not phone for a day or two and shows no sign that anything ever happened between you. Making love isn't just about going to bed with each other, but sharing each other to the ultimate and as close as two humans can get. If you don't feel this from this man, then it's time to trade him in like you would an old car! You're feelings are important too. Then there are men that aren't quite sure what to do after making love and if you are not pleased with something he does it is your responsibility to communicate this fact to him. Sex isn't always perfect and each partner can be different so it's so important both parties communicate their likes and dislikes. The intimacy freaked him out a bit.