Might depend on where you live but it's not uncommon to write your own. Obey is not exactly something most women would agree with today for example.
a) ask the pastor to omit or re-word that particular vow.
b) don't get married.
The Bible says "marriage is honorable"(Hebrews 13:4) It is to be taken seriously. If you don't feel like you can live up to its expectations, maybe you should reconsider making the commitment.
you will say your vows and the priest will then pronounce you man and wife.
A marriage entered into by Christians who live like Christians.A Christian marriage is a marriage seen under Gods 'law'. It involves respecting and loving each other. The vows also must involve God. It is performed by a priest.
There is no verse in the bible that says that. those vows were written by someone who summarized what they thought a christian marriage should be. it became so popular that its now used everywhere
Marriage.
marriage
Up to you really.
Vows of Love and Marriage
Honesty. Open communication. Faithfulness. All these things are covered in the marriage vows.
yes - marriage is supposed to be for life - that is the reason for the part of the vows "till death do us part".
Promises spouses make to each other during the wedding ceremony. There are different versions according to religious and personal taste. http://weddings.about.com/od/weddingvows/a/ringceremony.htm == == Marriage vows are a promise between a man and a woman to share there lives together until death do they part.
Carol Ross has written: 'Vows and toasts' -- subject(s): Wedding toasts, Marriage service, Vows
"promise to obey"