I can't imagine that it would be a peaceful situation, especially if the controlling person wants to change the alcoholic. Alcoholics really don't want anyone trying to control them or their drinking habits and controlling people have a hard time accepting that they can't change people themselves. Alcoholics Anonymous and Al Anon might help, but without serious changes, the relationship is bound to be rocky.
no because the alcoholic will smack you
A person who has lost control over drinking is an alcoholic, a condition that normally takes outside assistance to overcome. If a person's drinking is controlling them and their life, they are an alcoholic.
The illness is known as alcoholism. The person is an alcoholic.
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Mum says if you are uncomfortable end the relationship.
The person becomes dehydrated. Prolonged dehydration can lead to kidney failure.
No, she is not a controlling person. He is the one who will not break off the relationship. It sounds more like he's using you for "something on the side" while he stays with her for reasons unknown. If anyone is controlling it is him controlling you, at least for the last 3 years.
Be thankful! Who wants to be controlled constantly. Don't relax yet, because controlling people feel anyone or anything they come into contact with is their property and this person could well try to slide back into your life. Don't let them!
Yes, but being aware that it is possible arms the person with a powerful tool to avoid becoming an alcoholic him- or herself.
Because they are controlling and guilty themselves! Stay away from them neither person in a relationship should control neither one!
Yes, there is a strong correlation between substance abuse, rckless behaviors, and abusive conduct. Hi! Oh, definitely. Even if the person comes from a home where there is alcohol abuse and that person doesn't even really drink! But because they witnessed the abuse that goes along with the drinking. I believe it is called "dry alcoholic". But if the person in the relationship is abusive and also an alcoholic, definitely there is a relationship. They drink because they are trying to anesthesize their pain. Yes! Often abusers abuse alcohol/drugs to "deal" with their problems. They might even blame you for their drinking/drug use, or at least my abuser did. "If you did/didn't do this/that I wouldn't have to drink to feel better!" Ugh.
A person controlling a machine is called an 'Operator' think of it as Operating a machine, not controlling it.